one goal Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 So in just over three weeks school starts back up. Any tips on how to meet hotties at college? I'm taking 6 classes and I'll be in school five days a week. I like hot looking ones. nina dobrev is an example looks wise I look for in girls.
Author one goal Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 Unless you're a talented/asian student, you shouldn't be taking so many courses in 1 semester. 18 credit hours. You have to have at least 13 to keep financial aid. Also my university doesn't matter if you take 13 or 18 hours it cost the same full time. Also two of the classes are half term classes. Means they meet one day a week for 4 hours. Then the second half the semester I take another classes so I'll really be only taking 5 classes at once. Also I have breathing room if I have to drop a class.
Necromancer Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Yes, talk to them. I saw one of my friend pull it well off but she was no 9, still they had good convo. Unless you're good looking yourself i wouldn't I bother with really hot gals. Just go after one that you find attractive.
Author one goal Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 Yes, talk to them. I saw one of my friend pull it well off but she was no 9, still they had good convo. Unless you're good looking yourself i wouldn't I bother with really hot gals. Just go after one that you find attractive. Well if I find them attractive I obviously think they're hot then.
Cracker Jack Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Maybe put your focus on school rather than dem hotties. Stop making it your one goal every damn semester. 6
MrNate 2.0 Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Maybe put your focus on school rather than dem hotties. Stop making it your one goal every damn semester. At least it's not his teacher anymore. So he's making progress. 1
Cracker Jack Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Agreed. It's just, even after that whole thing, he still displayed his obsessive nature towards the hotties that he was texting (about projects), and that almost became a huge issue. If he can tone down the obsessiveness, pursuing women won't be an issue. Not expecting him to take the advice, but hopefully he'll consider it.
Author one goal Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 Agreed. It's just, even after that whole thing, he still displayed his obsessive nature towards the hotties that he was texting (about projects), and that almost became a huge issue. If he can tone down the obsessiveness, pursuing women won't be an issue. Not expecting him to take the advice, but hopefully he'll consider it. Then how am I supposed to ever get a date then?
SJC2008 Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 I don't know if you use the term hotties for all women or just the really hot upper echelon ones but I notice that's the only term use use do describe them. Typically hot guys get hot girls so if you're not hot, and you know whether you are or not, you should focus on girls in your league!
Author one goal Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 Agreed. It's just, even after that whole thing, he still displayed his obsessive nature towards the hotties that he was texting (about projects), and that almost became a huge issue. If he can tone down the obsessiveness, pursuing women won't be an issue. Not expecting him to take the advice, but hopefully he'll consider it. Also how is it not supposed to be an issue then? I keep trying and it doesn't work. I also hate how being at the gym I constantly see super hotties in workout short shorts and have no shot at all.
Cracker Jack Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 If you see a woman you like, approach her and don't do things like send her requests on Facebook and the like. Ask for her # and go from there. If she doesn't give it to you, that's fine. Just don't try to get closer to women by doing what you did before. You know, getting their # through other means such as team projects and making a move from that. You may try, but you weren't trying the right way.
Author one goal Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 If you see a woman you like, approach her and don't do things like send her requests on Facebook and the like. Ask for her # and go from there. If she doesn't give it to you, that's fine. Just don't try to get closer to women by doing what you did before. You know, getting their # through other means such as team projects and making a move from that. You may try, but you weren't trying the right way. I mean I can't just walk up to them cause I think they're cute and ask for their number if I don't know them. That's creepy and would make everyone at school think Im a creep.
Cracker Jack Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Have you forgotten the many "creepy" things you've done in the past already? Surprised you're having second thoughts based on how you might be perceived. That's a first. If you don't want to do that, talk to women in your class and try to get to know them like that. I don't know what else it is you want to hear. Just focus on school.
Author one goal Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 Have you forgotten the many "creepy" things you've done in the past already? Surprised you're having second thoughts based on how you might be perceived. That's a first. If you don't want to do that, talk to women in your class and try to get to know them like that. I don't know what else it is you want to hear. Just focus on school. What about in between classes? Like on Tue and Thur I have like a 2 hour gap in between classes.
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Your desperation is entertaining. You should start a blog about your attempts at these "hotties".
Author one goal Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 Your desperation is entertaining. You should start a blog about your attempts at these "hotties". It's not funny:(
carhill Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Blatant pursuit of young ladies is part of campus life and has been for generations. Based upon your past postings, in general, the tip I'll offer is to, when indicating your interest in a lady, listen to her answer and accept it. If it's anything other than a date, smile and move on to the next opportunity. I personally had more success meeting young ladies socially going to and from school and in impromptu study groups rather than in classes and on-campus. YMMV on that. In fact, I had better luck meeting young ladies cruising the main (that's an old fart thing) than I ever did in college. Just get out there. Socialize. 1
Author one goal Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 Blatant pursuit of young ladies is part of campus life and has been for generations. Based upon your past postings, in general, the tip I'll offer is to, when indicating your interest in a lady, listen to her answer and accept it. If it's anything other than a date, smile and move on to the next opportunity. I personally had more success meeting young ladies socially going to and from school and in impromptu study groups rather than in classes and on-campus. YMMV on that. In fact, I had better luck meeting young ladies cruising the main (that's an old fart thing) than I ever did in college. Just get out there. Socialize. I mean I'm at school a lot except weekends, and it's loaded with girls. I mean wouldn't it make sense I'd meet a girl there?
MrNate 2.0 Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 I mean I'm at school a lot except weekends, and it's loaded with girls. I mean wouldn't it make sense I'd meet a girl there? Just go for it man. When you see opportunities, just take them.
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 just go for it man. When you see opportunities, just take them. and if the person says "no," believe her and do not try a second time, ever.
ascendotum Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 and if the person says "no," believe her and do not try a second time, ever. I would not be here, if my grandfather had accepted the initial rebuff from my grandmother. One of the most successful men ever said..."I do not think there is any other quality so essential to success of any kind as the quality of perseverance. It overcomes almost everything, even nature." (JDR) Still...I have read some of OG's past posts and I do know why you said that.
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 I would not be here, if my grandfather had accepted the initial rebuff from my grandmother. One of the most successful men ever said..."I do not think there is any other quality so essential to success of any kind as the quality of perseverance. It overcomes almost everything, even nature." (JDR) Still...I have read some of OG's past posts and I do know why you said that. It is advice specifically tailored to the poster, believe me. 2
oaks Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Then how am I supposed to ever get a date then? By moving more quickly. A problem you've made in the past, more than once, is that you identify "a hottie" and then convince yourself that you can't ask her out until the end of the semester because it would be "super awkward" if she says no and you still have to see her in class. You have to ask her out on a date sooner, and you have to find a way of doing things differently so that you don't come here making excuses about there being no opportunity to talk to her. You have to make those opportunities! And when she says "no" you have to move on more quickly; the next girl might say "yes".
Author one goal Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 By moving more quickly. A problem you've made in the past, more than once, is that you identify "a hottie" and then convince yourself that you can't ask her out until the end of the semester because it would be "super awkward" if she says no and you still have to see her in class. You have to ask her out on a date sooner, and you have to find a way of doing things differently so that you don't come here making excuses about there being no opportunity to talk to her. You have to make those opportunities! And when she says "no" you have to move on more quickly; the next girl might say "yes". You just can't ask them out the first class when you don't even know them for 30 minutes.
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