Tay390 Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 (edited) Hi everyone, I've been interested in this girl for about 3 months. We've hung out 3 times together just the two of us and she seems quite shy, but talkative. I tease/flirt with her quite a bit and have called her cute a few times. I recently invited her out this past Monday but she had to work (paramedic) but said she would have if she was free. I responded calmly and 2 hours later she asked "can we soon though?".... I felt like I've made enough effort over the past few weeks to arrange a 4th date so I just said "Yeah give me a call soon and we'll make it work".. and she responded with "I will!!! " That was 3 days ago. She has also invited me to a party at her house this Saturday night (over Facebook) and I haven't confirmed or anything yet. Should I just show up, or wait until she contacts me to see if I'm going, or what? Should I go to the party and just play it cool, tease/touch her etc.. ? Or should I not even go to the party if she doesn't contact me? Thanks for any advice whatsoever! Edited July 26, 2012 by Tay390
Ami1uwant Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Not sure of your ages...but go to the party. In all honesty I am thinking she is viewing you as just a friend givem the 3 weeks and only 3 dates. A key I look for---if you call and ask for a date and she says no I cant because of work or whatever else--then they should counter you with telling you this alternate day works.
Author Tay390 Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 We are both 21. We have both just been enjoying our summers, working, hanging with friends, etc... so I haven't been pushing anything. For the past month we've had conflicting schedules during the weekends too. I felt she got distant about a month ago so I backed off and then she suddenly started pursuing me a bit more, inviting me out, liking my photos, etc. She then excitedly accepted a date and suggested we do it again sometime (afterwards). I suppose I'll go to the party and try to escalate things, if I get rejected then at least I tried... ? Any further advice would be great.
InJest Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Go to the party, but don't spend all your time with this girl. Talk to other girls too, but do pay attention to her. Make your move, and if you get rejected, drop her hard and move on. Maybe give it one more shot in a one on one setting, but nothing beyond that. Also, you should still be going after other girls too.
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