morichu Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 During a breakup: A boy will do whatever it takes to please everybody A Man has firm morals that he compromises for nobody A boy will rebound as quickly as possible to avoid being alone A Man has doesn't need anyone to care for him as he is confident in his own abilities A boy dates one bad girl and makes every girl after pay for it A Man knows its just one girl A boy will run back to his ex afraid of being alone A Man knows there are plenty of other fish in the sea A boy will try every possible way to make the ex jealous A Man is too busy worrying about his own life to care what she thinks A boy will try and fight the guy his ex dumps him for A Man wishes them well and cuts his losses
RogerWallace111 Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Maybe I'm more of a man than I realized A mildly depressed one, but a man 1
Author morichu Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 Maybe I'm more of a man than I realized A mildly depressed one, but a man Lol well reading some of your posts it seems we have a lot in common. I can't remember where I got this but it was about the difference between a girl/woman and I just switched the words around
Crila16 Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 God I wish there were more men out there. I haven't dated any...just little boys.
k100danny Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 I think a man would actually realise things aren't as black and white as this at all. All things are because of many different factors and have nothing to di with being a man. I see what you are trying to say that the rational grown up thing to do is those things but i wouldn't say someone isn't a man for going about it a different way. we all react differently to situations and this is just our way of coping. I wished my ex well for a her future relationship but have been very childish at the end of others, I do believe we grow each time we have a relationship and mature about how to handle things but the number 1 thing for how people react after relationships ends is attachment style and this is something conditioned over many years and may be no fault of the person at all.
RogerWallace111 Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 I think a man would actually realise things aren't as black and white as this at all. All things are because of many different factors and have nothing to di with being a man. I see what you are trying to say that the rational grown up thing to do is those things but i wouldn't say someone isn't a man for going about it a different way. we all react differently to situations and this is just our way of coping. No, Dan, It IS black and white ! These are the rigid guidelines by which all manhood is determined !
Author morichu Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 (edited) I think a man would actually realise things aren't as black and white as this at all. All things are because of many different factors and have nothing to di with being a man. I see what you are trying to say that the rational grown up thing to do is those things but i wouldn't say someone isn't a man for going about it a different way. we all react differently to situations and this is just our way of coping. I wished my ex well for a her future relationship but have been very childish at the end of others, I do believe we grow each time we have a relationship and mature about how to handle things but the number 1 thing for how people react after relationships ends is attachment style and this is something conditioned over many years and may be no fault of the person at all. I would say it almost is black and white actually. IMO the most important person in your life is you not anyone else. And if you want to truly better yourself this is what you do Edited July 26, 2012 by morichu
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