Ajla123 Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 I dated a guy for about 2 weeks and things were going very well. He would text me saying he missed me and wished I was there with him, and that he wants me to meet his daughter, and that I was the only girl he's dated that he wanted to meet her. He also told me that he really, really likes me and hasn't felt this way about a woman in a long time. Recently he stopped calling. I asked if there was something that changed and I think we needed to talk about it. He responded with, he was busy with work, and taking care of his daughter, and that he needed to pull back, because too much too soon and someone could get hurt. I told him that I understood and thought he was worth trying to make this work, and to take his time and let me know who he decides. I am not sure what to do next. It's been about 10 days since that conversation. I know I should give him his space. I think that he got scared of his feelings and ran away, but I don't want him to run forever. He's the nicest guy I have ever dated and I don't want to lose that. I just need some reassurance that I am doing the right thing.
veggirl Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 You should move on. Needing a break (basically) after two weeks? Not a good sign. Not to mention the break has now lasted almost as long as the relationship... 2 weeks in, you have nothing invested here...you barely know the guy, he can't be the nicest guy you have dated because he isn't even giving you any attention for half of the time you've known him. He has most likely met someone else. If he was interested, work wouldn't keep him away. You can take things slowly without STOPPING things. I took things slowly with my BF, meaning we hung out like twice a week rather than every day etc. We were never "off" though. You should date other guys and forget this one.
Author Ajla123 Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 I knew him longer than 2 weeks. He works at a bar that i've been going to for over 6 months. I was there pretty much every week.
veggirl Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 I knew him longer than 2 weeks. He works at a bar that i've been going to for over 6 months. I was there pretty much every week. Well you said in your OP that you have been dating him for 2 weeks. Knowing someone isn't the same as dating them.
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