sleepie Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 I know how difficult NC can be for people. Very, very, very difficult. You struggle. You're tempted. You're heartbroken. You hurt. You ache. You grieve. But there are good days, I promise. I had a decent day yesterday. And today I woke up feeling great. I have a renewed interest in my job, my hobbies, my life. I can finally drag my butt off the couch. I'm not saying you won't still think about him/her. I've already thought about xMOM plenty today. But it doesn't consume my thoughts. And I'm not wallowing in grief about it. Will there be good days followed by bad days? Yes. Will there be ups and downs? Yes. But there will be good days. And eventually you'll have more good days than bad days. And eventually your bad days won't be about him/her anymore, the day will be bad because your boss chewed you out or the dog peed on the carpet or you got a big bill in the mail. Those of you in NC: Hold on. Hang on. You'll have good days again. 3
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