barese1 Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Hi guys, Some of you may have read my full story here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/329629-nc-friends-maybe Long story short, girl I fell deeply for was not looking for a relationship and we ended it 3 months ago, NC for 2 months. I've spent the whole time thinking about her etc. but now I know she has moved on, really doesn't think about us, possibly seeing someone else and have accepted we won't get back together, and it really doesn't matter what actually happened in the past. What I want to know is how can I now begin to sort myself out? Not get over her to an extent, but to deal with my issues properly. I am exercising, eating (sometimes) well, sociallising, dating and am seeing a doctor about a referral to a therapist on Monday. I just need some advice. Now I know she has moved on I have accepted that I need to let go and sort my sh*t out. Not sure what advice I'm looking for, but I need some positive comments and that I won't feel this way forever. Thanks
SlyMan320 Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 What I've learned throughout the course of relationships is time heals all wounds. I went on and off contact with my ex for months and all it took for me was to take this huge step back from my situation and realize there's more to my life then just my ex. I went on for months thinking about her once, if not more, a day. There were all of these little things that reminded me of her, but Time has this magical way of severing any ties between someone you love. It makes you forget who they are, what you shared, and what they looked liked. In the longrun, you'll find somebody who will treat you better than your ex did at one point, even if they're not your ex. Remember, they're an ex for a reason.
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