Fallenandbroken Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Hey people. Would love some advice on something. I came out of a relationship a few mOnths back and joined a gym straight after to improve myself and help me get over my ex. It has worked a lot as feel a lot better and stronger in both senses of the word. My predicament is a girl at my gym. She amazes me. She's beautiful and sexy and I would love to find my lost confidence and just talk to her and ask her out. She is a 7/10 in my eyes and most likely out of my league. She more than likely has a boyfriend and would likely shun me without second thought. But then again she maybe in the gym for the same reason and accept. I'd hate to bug her and try and ask her out for a drink etc and her shun me as it would knock my fragile confidence and lIkely make it awkward to see her in the next time. It's been years since a girl has had the effect she has on me. When I see her I feel like a child and go all shy and quiet lol she knocks me sideways but think she's well out of my league. Any advice would be appreciated guys Thanks
s0lost Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Ok, well I would just say go for it. You MAY get shut down..but what if you don't? You are already saying you feel like she's out of your league and you're assuming she has a boyfriend. I'd ask her out for a drink..the worst thing to happen is she'll have a boyfriend or something..so that means you are kinda expecting a no
Author Fallenandbroken Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 Thanks for the reply. I asked the same question of one of the ladies that works at the gym that I've gotten to know since I started and she said pretty much the same thing. I think I'm just going to pluck up the courage to ask her for a drink. The worst she can say is no but there is that chance she could say yes. Time to bite the bullet.
Cealabeala Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 You have to get over the scariness of it sooner or later, and it might as well be sooner!
s0lost Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Good luck bud, hope she agrees to go out for drinks with ya!
amantis Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 dont ask for a dring the first time you talk with her . Say hi , ask her name , ask her for how long is she going to the gym , make conversation . After you know her a bit more ask her for a drink
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