Author irc333 Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 Not a whole race, but a lot of members thereof. My best buddy is Mexican and refuses to date Hispanic women... I've met at least one white guy who dates black women but can't stand white women. Go figure. Well, yeah that's kind of what I'm talking about. But, these people are not dating their own kind due to (ironically) their own stereotypes. I know a Hispanic man that won't date Hispanic women because he thinks they have major tempers. Quite silly. I've met at least one white guy who dates black women but can't stand white women. That's what he tells you, did he ever say why he can't stand his own race? Unless it's just a phase or a fetish, I'm sure he'll get over it, and later start dating white women.
FitChick Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 (edited) What races are you referring to? I've never heard of a race that found dating their own race to be unusual. I doubt that's even true. I've dated Jewish guys who prefer shiksas. If you don't know what that is, here is Wikipedia's definition: "Shiksa usually refers to an attractive (stereotypically blonde) gentile woman who might be a temptation to Jewish men for dating, intermarriage, etc. I have a black neighbor who prefers white and Latina women because black women are ball busters, in his experience. I have a Latina friend who never dates Latinos because they are too controlling. My current rant is men wasting my time, knowing I am far away and they can't afford to meet me. I don't rant on my profile though. Edited July 27, 2012 by FitChick
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Be glad they advertise who they really are. Really! I can't believe you are complaining about this! You know right upfront that this is a woman you don't want to deal with. It's all good.
Author irc333 Posted July 28, 2012 Author Posted July 28, 2012 For the fun of it, if the woman in question is really pissy in her profile, esp. if I see contradictions or double standards. One for instance...she's flaunting herself in a string bikini, but yet asks that the men keep their shirts on in their dating profile or not take pics of themselves with their shirts off. I usually challenge them on it. LOL Sometimes I get their goat, others don't respond. Or I just simply put, "Bitter much??"
thatone Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Really! I can't believe you are complaining about this! You know right upfront that this is a woman you don't want to deal with. It's all good. yeah but that's not his real issue, his real issue is that when he rationalizes that the crazy ones further reduce the pool of available people on those OLD sites down below 5%, he has to come to the realization that he simply can't find a gf by opening a new tab while shopping for stuff on amazon, because it's not possible.
g450 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Right...I've actually seen white woman say, "I only date black men" , I'm not into white guys." Quite odd when someone won't date a member of their own race. Yeah I have seen that as well. A lot of those out there. But most OLD sites have the racial preferences question so in most cases you dont have to say it, your profile match thing will let them know. Some like to flaunt it though. And to be honest, I have my own preferences as well. Im so glad I dont date any more. I get a kick out of reading some of this stuff though.
g450 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 I think he's referring to the asians who only date/mostly date white men scenario. Some people believe stereotypes of their own race, sadly. I once met a latina woman who said she only dates whites because hispanics "are too ghetto". That was before she met this guy My first wife was Latina and told me basically the same thing. Latino men are too controling and mucho macho types that judge the level of their manhood by how many chicas he banged or how many babies he produced and abandoned. From where I was living at the time, I had to agree with her. But thats just my experience, nothing more.
g450 Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 This is coming from a grown woman in her late 30's. With a Master's degree. It sounded more like she was just on the site to ridicule men as opposed to DATE them. Sadly there are those out there. I had one email me and make fun of my profile. She even went so far as to ridecule the fact that I put on my profile that I was a Navy vet. She made it a point to let me know she was an officer and a doctor. Hmmmm. How was emasculating me supposed to turn me on exactly? I honestly think that only a small portion of women on OLD sites are there to actually date.
OsiStruck Posted July 29, 2012 Posted July 29, 2012 Dating sites are a joke, your better off just going about your life and if you meet someone well then at least you. know what your getting yourself into... Personally I hate dating and thus, I'm single and enjoying it! 1
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