sandcastle99 Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 I met my ex through work and we hit it off instantly. Although we were together only 2 months, we had great chemistry and got along really well. He ended our relationship suddenly and got married a few months later to a woman he had been friends with before. While he was married, he would send me short happy birthday emails every year. They had a child together and after just a few years they're getting a divorce. It's been 4 years since I've last seen him and he has moved out of the country. He is telling me that the whole time he was married he was thinking about me and wants me back. He has always been on my mind but I never let him know this while he was with her. Is this his guilt talking or does he genuinely regret leaving me for this woman that he is divorcing? I don't want to be the rebound girl and I also don't want to miss out on a chance at true love. At the same time, my ego is bruised from the first time he rejected me. I don't know what to do.
WhatYouWantToHear Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Second choice is nothing to sneeze at. I'd jump at this opportunity while its still available--before his 3rd choice, 4th choice or 5th through 9th choice woman grabs it. I'm sure at least one of the offers he has out will come back with a 'yes'.
Searchin81 Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 Go For it! if you love him do not DO NOT let it go!
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