Kaushu Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 I posted a thread some three 2 4 days back. It was "THE GIRL I LOVED-left me for money". Hey people i need ur help in this bcoz i m finding it weird and bizarre and dont know what to do. Aditi contacted me again.She said she was feeling guilty for betraying me. I became so happy and felt she wants to reunite with me.But again she says her expectations are very high and she does not love me!...i can't understand her behavior. If she wants to move on in life then why is she is contacting me ya.With much difficulty i'm trying to come over her and forget her.But she contacting and messaging back is drawing me more towards her.If she is interested and wants to rebuild our relationship(which i want she should) then why is she repeating the same thing over and over again that we are just friends and she does not love me.!!!!...i can't understand what's going on in her mind.Pls help me as to what should i do. I feel like talking to her and loving her but she saying "i do not love u" is puzzling and depressing me more.Help me ya!.....
Ruby65 Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 She's telling you very clearly that she doesn't love you. Please don't confuse her wanting to reconcile with her having feelings for you, because she's telling you clearly that she doesn't have those feelings. If she wants to reconcile with you, it's for another reason. You've said she left you for someone else who had more money than you? I would guess it didn't work out with that person, and now she's coming back to you and your money as a Plan B. I wouldn't be with this woman if you're hoping to be with a partner who loves you. Contacting you and messaging you and asking to come back to you DO NOT mean she loves you..... she's telling you flat out that she doesn't.
KatZee Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Aditi contacted me again.She said she was feeling guilty for betraying me. This is the only reason she is contacting you. To ease her own guilt. She doesn't want to feel like the bad person in this situation. I became so happy and felt she wants to reunite with me. Why? She gave you no indication. She said "I do not love you." She just wants to be able to put her head down at night with no guilt. Just ignore her.
Author Kaushu Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 This is the only reason she is contacting you. To ease her own guilt. She doesn't want to feel like the bad person in this situation. Why? She gave you no indication. She said "I do not love you." She just wants to be able to put her head down at night with no guilt. Just ignore her. ya ...may be u r right. she's wants to ease her guilt.
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