Hendo1230 Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 I am 22 years old. I meet a pretty Latino lady, shes 19 years old. I meet her & she told me 4 months ago she broke up with her ex-fiance. Her ex is 21 years old. They've been dating for 5 years & they've almost married together. They even lived together. He got kicked out of Airfoce for minor scoliosis. The reason why she broke up with him was because when she had a conversation with him, he would forget it & then she would have to repeat herself & he also didn't pay enough attention to her because he played video games. Here I am, I came to U.S from Russia in 2000. We dated for 2 months. Every time ever hanged out, I took her out to do something new, sight seeing, I showed her new places. She enjoys hiking & I took her on a good hike that she's never seen in my area. She said I was handsome guy, her mom liked me & her close family member liked me & he said I was nice guy. We had good sex, I always satisfy her & sometimes she was too tired for me. I told her, next year I would take her to Russia with me to visit. She said that she was fascinated by the Russian culture & she loved when I spoke Russian & my cologne turned her on. After two months dating, her ex showed up one day while I was sleeping at her home. I told her, let me talk to him & she said no, the only way for him to leave her is by her talking to him & I let them talk while I waited in another room. for an hour in half they've talked & the guy said sorry for stuff. Then he left & she didn't seem happy. 3 days latter we went on the date to the movie theater. Me, my gf & her 3 really good friends. They liked me & she was happy with it. But on the way back home, it was weird. I felt like something was on her mind. After that she didn't talk to me for 2 days. When she decided to talk to me, she told me " I'm not sure what I am going threw right now, idk if i want to date right or put you threw this situation. " The next day i come over her house, while she was texting & typing something on her computer, she told me that she doesn't want to date & she doesn't know what she wants & she said I was a handsome guy & I can find somebody easily & she had no emotions. After that, in school she told me " we ended it on the good note " from then on she sits across the room from me. Whenever I talk to a friendly girl next to me in class, my ex would constantly stare at us & when I stop talking to the nice girl thats when my ex stops looking. What exactly happened ? why did she leave me ? will she try to come back ?
whichwayisup Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 I meet her & she told me 4 months ago she broke up with her ex-fiance. Her ex is 21 years old. They've been dating for 5 years & they've almost married together. This is why she chose her ex over you. She barely knows you and she has long history with her ex. Nothing you could have done would have changed the outcome because it's obvious she wasn't over her ex, especially after four months of them breaking up. She wasn't done with him and he wasn't done with..Unfortunately you were the rebound guy..Sorry you're hurting. 1
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