dragon820 Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 we've known one another for about 20 years, there's never been a 'relationship, and upon close inspection the time we've spent together is due to his wanting/needing something from me. I've never been disillusioned about what our interaction was, but I've hoped that it could become something more. He's done some really F'd up stuff...he always said I was unemotional he's tried to make me jealous by having me massage his female friends (I'm a massage therapist), had me cook for them etc...I did these things determined to not let him know how I felt about them. fast forward. I withdrew in january 2011, never initiating contact, talking only if he called, he even complained that I didn't call. Faster foward, in June he invited me to a family celebration for his mother, and introduced me to another woman....telling her I was his massage therapist/nutirtionist, and a few other descriptions that I didn't pay any attention to...and only introducing her by her name. which prompted her to have to show me how involved they were (she's a doctor and managed to slip that into the limited conversation within the first 15 minutes.... my questionis.....why go through all this, when I am clear that he doesn't want me, and I've gotten past the point where I delude myself into thinking that i was ever anything other than easy sex...why run the risk of me acting bitchy and causing problems with the woman that he actually wants....
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