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Texting ex-husband

JackL

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I figured this was the right section to post under since I am not worried about my wife cheating. This is just about her texting her ex-husband. They have multiple children together and I absolutely agree that they need to be in contact about them and finances. I am very uncomfortable with the fact that they are friendly and text each other about other things...how hard their work is and what they are doing that night. Obviously she doesn't know that I saw her texts.

 

We spoke about this and she agreed that she wouldn't be friendly with him. It is also weird that they are friendly one minute and then fighting the next and then back to being friendly. I don't want them to fight but they are overly-friendly in my opinion. Very uncomfortable and always thinking about it. Any ideas on what to do or if I am in the wrong for feeling like this, how to deal?

 

Thanks.

g450 Established Member

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Listen to Duck!!!!!

 

I was in this situation myself with my current wife two years ago when we were dating. Her loser POS XH kept in contact with him even though he paid zero child support. They both used their "kid" as an excuse to keep talking. Ironically it was never talk about the kid. He could freaking care less about his kid in reality sad to say.

 

Not only that but she had another X that did the same thing since he also had a kid with her. I literally had to block his number when we got married.

 

And dont let the arguing fool you. Mine constantly argued with hers as well but I caught her at one time going to him to have sex with him. I kicked her out of my house that day.

 

Duck is right. I sorted my problem out with boundries and by backing them up with consequeces. I gave her one second chance. That's it. She doesnt get another. She knows this. In your case however I would cut my losses. Live and learn. I always advise people to NEVER date a woman who has her ex hanging around. No good ever becomes of it. Especially if she has a kid with him.

 

Your GF seems to still have feelings for her X just as mine did. I hope you realize what a mess you are in and do the right thing. Good luck.

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