jobaba Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I've been in a band, am friends with many people who are active musicians, and have dated guys in popular bands. The only thing that really matters here is the guy's character and how he handles the attention. The guy I'm seeing isn't a musician, but he's good-looking, charismatic, and dresses well. So waitresses, baristas, and so on are are constantly grinning at him and flirting. But I've never once seen him flirt back. He's polite and friendly, but doesn't flirt or encourage them to keep flirting. I've never felt that he's distracted from me and what we're doing by the attention. It's a great feeling - like, "Yep, eat your hearts out, girls - he's with me." How does he handle attention from flirty women in general? I don't mean this in a bad way at all, but how many men have you dated? It seems like you've dated like 100 guys. Man. I always like to see how the other side lives...
Ruby Slippers Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I don't mean this in a bad way at all, but how many men have you dated? It seems like you've dated like 100 guys. Man. I always like to see how the other side lives... I've had serious relationships with 4 men. I've dated another... dozen or so. Maybe 2 dozen if we're talking all the way back to high school. And for the curious, I've had sex with fewer than 10 men. I've never seen him get hit on directly, but when we're out together he's very generous with his affection and it's obvious to everyone around that we are together (constant hand holding, rubbing my back, hand on the knee, etc). So, like I said, I've never felt insecure around him. But tomorrow night I'll see him in a context that I haven't before. I think it'll be totally cool. 2
Recommended Posts