62083 Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 My ex boyfriend and I officially ended everything (contact, sex, us) beginning of July. The relationship started out good, fast but good. We hung out 24/7, always had a ton of fun. We met each others families, including me meeting his daughter. Then something just changed with him. He started needing space and acting distant. Well we tried to be friends/friends with benefits after we broke up but that ended with a huge fight in which he shoved me into a wall and left bruises down my arm. He has a drinking problem and tried to tell me that it never happened and I was lying (I was sober- ?). Well I found out from a bunch of his friends that he told them all to have sex with me so I'm happy. So I stopped talking to him and everything. Well yesterday I found out that he had been cheating on me and that his main goal was to hook up with all the women he works with. I'm still in shock at how terrible of a relationship this was and I repeatedly made excuses for him. There was a night where he disrespected me by shoving me out of his bed because I wouldn't have sex with him. What did I do? I took him back. It was an awful relationship and he is a terrible person. I hate him. I am so anger with him I want to physically hurt him. I understand anger is perfectly acceptable here; he lied to me, cheated on me, hit me, and was just not very nice with the way he talked to me. But I am not an angry person and I don't like the way this makes me feel. I want to let it go and I'm not sure how. I almost want to start boxing or something just to hit something! I need/want to forgive him for myself, not because he deserves it, but so I can let this go and forget about how crappy of a relationship/person he was. I just don't know how. Anyone have any suggestions on how to let this go?
nofool4u Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 How to let this go? Yes. First realize he isn't worthy of you. He's a liar, cheater, and physically abusive. Second, start dating, being in the company of real men, good men and you'll wonder why you wasted any time even thinking about this jerk. (that is unless you have a thing for bad boys)
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