casper12 Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 This is a on going situation and i have written threads on here before and received amazing advice, so im back again seeking the same.. I neede to give you a breif run down on whats happened- Ex girlfriend has really screwd with my head yet again, we had been togeather off and on for almost a year, she has trust issues from her last relationship which was highley abusive & toxic! The times we had problems all come back to her ex! her running back to him and then calling me afew days later saying she was confused and that she feels like he owns her!? Their have been some very odd things happing around her house, like her power had been tamperd with and dissconnected! And the most resent occurance was after her asking for time to herself we had one week apart, then in the early hours Saturday morning around 0215 i get a call from her saying their is someone on her driveway and to get their as quick as i can so in a panic i get dressed telling her to stay on the phone and race over, i get their and the persons gone! I calm her down and we call the police to report it, shen also tells me she is pregnant... and that she cant keep it...she showed me the test sticks! Due to leave for work on the monday i tell her i will stay and do the right thing by her and go with her to the hospital, she tells me no and that she will do it by herself! I spent the rest of the weekend with her we made love and had donre as we normally do! Monday i fly up to work & I try calling her the day of the operation and no answer than, early hours in the morning i get a message from her saying that i was the "guy in the drive way and that the it was all a test and she made it all up??? Im so shocked and confused and she wont talk to me and tell me whats going on! then she calls telling she got all confused and everthing is a blur and that she dosent want me to think she is a bad person! and then she dosent contact me my heads a mess yet again im trying to go N/C but only been able to go one day!? IM SO LOST
Sheppy99 Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I already knew there was nobody in her driveway before I even read the part where you said she made it up. Someday when you've moved on from this unfortunate unstable soul....... you'll look back and wonder how you couldn't see the obvious. If you stay too long, you too will turn into an unstable toxic person that will need years of healing. It happened to me. I was with an unstable manipulative person for the better part of 4 years. It literally took me 2 or 3 years before I felt myself again after being in such a toxic situation. If you continue to stay with her, making false police reports will just be the tip of the iceberg for you and I wish you luck cause you're going to need it. So my advice............. run as fast as you can in the other direction and find a stable minded person.
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