Pistol pete Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 (edited) Hey all, I've been seeing a girl for a couple of weeks now and things are going very well indeed. The only slight problem I have (and it is a stupid one) is that something I suspected from a few hints that she's dropped, have been confirmed as true. She had a three year relationship with someone who I went to school with, someone who I didn't particularly like that much.. who is both taller and better looking than me! haha I know it SHOULDN'T matter at all to me, it's unwarranted and immature, but ex partners is one of my hang ups when it comes to relationships.. and this is the first time it's ever been with anyone I've known.. and it's just, a bit weird. Anyways, I know it's all very stupid but does anyone have any tips of overcoming stuff like this? Edited July 25, 2012 by Pistol pete
all_hail_me Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Apparently no one has advice on how to deal with insecurity - wth? I have some of the same issues, though yours are considerably closer to home as you actually know the ex in question! I think you need to weigh up whether you want to have a relationship with your lady or whether the jealousy is going to become too much. Probably the best thing to do is not to jump into bed too soon because instead of making you both closer, it will only amplify your insecurities. Time, in this case, will only tell. As you get older, ex partners are sadly going to become more common place! I would get used to it or find someone inexperienced and hold onto her for dear life.
GLDheart Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 Just let it go. Don't let it poison what you have. She likes you for a reason after all. 1
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