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He happened to be a customer at work. :laugh:

 

 

 

He came up to me and asked if I was in sales, and of course I happened to be helping another customer so I handed him over to my girlfriend.

 

I got a text a while later from her saying that he wouldn't stop asking her about me. :) Of course I found him attractive, so I told her to give him my number if he wanted it. Such a bummer I couldn't have helped him, but after he left she came over and said he wanted to tell me how gorgeous I was and that he would DEFINITELY give me a call.

 

 

 

 

Well, he called and asked me out for a few drinks.

Woot! :cool:

 

 

Wish me luck! It has been a few weeks since I went on a first date and I am sorta kinda nervous!

Bad news is he probably won't be anything long term, due to the fact that he leaves this weekend to go back to colorado [he is military, what do you know] but he seemed like an interesting guy and I have nothing else to do tonight anyways, so why not? He is PROBABLY just looking for a one night stand, which won't happen, but I am not jumping to conclusions just yet.

 

I will update you all later!

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He is PROBABLY just looking for a one night stand, which won't happen, but I am not jumping to conclusions just yet.

 

:confused::D

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:confused::D

 

:laugh:

Surprise! I am not as big of a slut as you think I am! :p

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:laugh:

Surprise! I am not as big of a slut as you think I am! :p

 

"Okay you guys, back. Well, I must say that I did hook up with him! :D I had to, he was so sexy! Plus he was leaving! You only live once right? :p" - Future Jaclyn

 

Haha, enjoy your date.

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"Okay you guys, back. Well, I must say that I did hook up with him! :D I had to, he was so sexy! Plus he was leaving! You only live once right? :p" - Future Jaclyn

 

Haha, enjoy your date.

 

Well that is rude. :mad:

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It's not a date, a date is to see if there is a chance for something more, like a relationship. He's leaving so you are going out for free drinks or to get laid or for both. Whatever the reason is it's your business so I'm not judging. He on the other hand is going out to get laid, AND thinks he is because you know he's leaving and are STILL going out with him so be careful.

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It's not a date, a date is to see if there is a chance for something more, like a relationship. He's leaving so you are going out for free drinks to get laid. Whatever the reason is it's your business so I'm not judging. He on the other hand is going out to get laid, AND thinks he is because you know he's leaving and are STILL going out with him so be careful.

 

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How funny, because I actually am buying my own drinks thank you very much. I am driving to meet him so I don' even plan on drinking more than one. And who cares if he is leaving? I love how negative people sound on here sometimes.

 

I am going to have a good time meeting someone new, and if it goes somewhere and we keep in touch, AWESOME. If things don't go very well and we don't talk ever again. AWESOME. It is a win win situation.

 

 

Just because he is leaving doesn't mean there isn't a chance, for all we know he could be my soul mate. :laugh:

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Soulmate? Try holemate.

 

 

Ok I had my fun messing with you :p

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Good luck MJR, make sure you bat those beautiful eyes at him. :laugh:

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your absolutely right!! I met a nice woman 3 days before I left a 3 week temporary duty. Now shes flying up to stay with me for a few days. Weird how things can go terribly right. Have fun on your date girl!!

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Sounds good. Hope you enjoy yourself.

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:lmao:

How funny, because I actually am buying my own drinks thank you very much. I am driving to meet him so I don' even plan on drinking more than one. And who cares if he is leaving? I love how negative people sound on here sometimes.

 

I am going to have a good time meeting someone new, and if it goes somewhere and we keep in touch, AWESOME. If things don't go very well and we don't talk ever again. AWESOME. It is a win win situation.

 

 

Just because he is leaving doesn't mean there isn't a chance, for all we know he could be my soul mate. :laugh:

 

I stand corrected since you're buying your own drinks and mabye he will be your soul mate who knows? Mabye he's thinking the same thing!

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He happened to be a customer at work. :laugh:

 

 

 

He came up to me and asked if I was in sales, and of course I happened to be helping another customer so I handed him over to my girlfriend.

 

I got a text a while later from her saying that he wouldn't stop asking her about me. :) Of course I found him attractive, so I told her to give him my number if he wanted it. Such a bummer I couldn't have helped him, but after he left she came over and said he wanted to tell me how gorgeous I was and that he would DEFINITELY give me a call.

 

 

 

 

Well, he called and asked me out for a few drinks.

Woot! :cool:

 

 

Wish me luck! It has been a few weeks since I went on a first date and I am sorta kinda nervous!

Bad news is he probably won't be anything long term, due to the fact that he leaves this weekend to go back to colorado [he is military, what do you know] but he seemed like an interesting guy and I have nothing else to do tonight anyways, so why not? He is PROBABLY just looking for a one night stand, which won't happen, but I am not jumping to conclusions just yet.

 

I will update you all later!

 

The one reason I like hot girls is because they make all the lesser attractive women who reject me jealous. And that gives me some satisfaction in a round-about way. I've found hot girls are usually pretty nice too. And why wouldn't they be? :lmao:

 

I hesitate to pump up a woman's ego by calling her hot, but ... meh, it's not like you don't know.

 

Good luck on your date.

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Every girl should have a guy who can't stop talking about her.

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Every girl should have a guy who can't stop talking about her.

 

Really?

 

Funny how women pass that up all the time...

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I think this blows up in the face that you need some extreme variation of rapport and above average "game" or some other social trick up your sleeve to get a woman to go out with you, 90% (or 100% if you're the OP) of it is looks. Somewhere in the world a Pick Up Artist is crying into his cowboy hat in the fold up bed of his studio apartment.

 

LMAO!

 

I never even thought of it like that. You make a good point!

 

Looks take you a looong way. For both sexes.

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The guy didn't even say a word to you, and you're going out on a date with him? Maybe i'm a weird guy, but I would've never even be bothered to ask out a girl I have no idea about, no matter how "hot" she is, what's the point. And he's leaving soon?

 

Nothing "wrong" with that I suppose, just make sure to wear a condom.

 

I think this blows up in the face that you need some extreme variation of rapport and above average "game" or some other social trick up your sleeve to get a woman to go out with you, 90% (or 100% if you're the OP) of it is looks. Somewhere in the world a Pick Up Artist is crying into his cowboy hat in the fold up bed of his studio apartment.

 

.... or maybe sometimes you could just go with the flow instead of judging everyone else who is more easy going than you are. Having fun, ya know? Is 'fun' in the vocabulary?

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I am back.

Interesting responses in this thread. :laugh:

 

 

Well gentleman, hate to burst your bubble, but it was a nice date... One that ended in a hug.

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Shocking. I know. :rolleyes:

 

 

Anyways, it was a nice date. Got there and ordered myself a drink and we popped a squat on the patio and talked all night. He was a cool guy, but definitely not someone long term. For one, he had a swastica shaved into his head. :laugh: It was no wonder he always wore a hat. Then of course there was the fact that he had two kids. [i love kids, but I just couldn't be with someone who has them at this point in my life] We were able to hold a conversation, but a lot of things came up that I just didn't find appealing.

 

 

 

Oh well! It was still fun meeting someone new, and he didn't make a move on me at all other than "judge my hugging skills".

 

I understand many of you have this false persona of me engraved into your heads, I just have my own ideas about dating, and the way I do it works for me. Tonight may not have led me to my soul mate, or potential future husband, but I still enjoyed myself, and I am sure he did too. :D

 

 

This is the thing I love about dating, I believe if you do it a certain way, you can always walk away with something positive. It isn't about the attention, or the "free" drinks I sometimes get, or even about the looks of the other person... For me it is making a connection with a stranger, so that even if it doesn't work out, we both don't leave feeling like it was a waste of time.

 

Maybe my ideas are flawed, but I have fun and go with the flow, and NO... Having a good time doesn't always have to include physical touching.

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He was a cool guy, but definitely not someone long term. For one, he had a swastica shaved into his head.

 

Yeah. Typically white supremicists are only good for a short term fling.

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The guy didn't even say a word to you, and you're going out on a date with him? Maybe i'm a weird guy, but I would've never even be bothered to ask out a girl I have no idea about, no matter how "hot" she is, what's the point. And he's leaving soon?

 

Nothing "wrong" with that I suppose, just make sure to wear a condom.

 

I think this blows up in the face that you need some extreme variation of rapport and above average "game" or some other social trick up your sleeve to get a woman to go out with you, 90% (or 100% if you're the OP) of it is looks. Somewhere in the world a Pick Up Artist is crying into his cowboy hat in the fold up bed of his studio apartment.

 

 

 

He did say something to me, we talked for a bit [about cars though] before I got my girlfriend to work with him. To each their own, but I get asked out a lot from people who don't really "know" me, sure it may be looks, but I also am a very approachable person. I am a happy person, and I think that shines through too. Why does there always need to be a point? Can't two people just enjoy the company?

 

As for the last part, what I may find attractive is not what the norm would find attractive. Sure this guy was good looking, but at the same time I have had dates with MANY different kinds of men. Skinny nerdy guys, chubby funny guys, fit athletic men... If you show interest and can hold some kind of conversation and don't come off as a total creeper, I see no problem in giving a chance.

 

 

 

So many assumptions. :(

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Yeah. Typically white supremicists are only good for a short term fling.

 

... :confused:

What is your problem?

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I have a question for you all: if a guy suggests second date at his house does this mean sex?

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I have a question for you all: if a guy suggests second date at his house does this mean sex?

 

Oh boy... :laugh:

 

 

Yes, for the most part. That being said though, I don't rule guys out for asking.

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Oh boy... :laugh:

 

 

Yes, for the most part. That being said though, I don't rule guys out for asking.

 

But say you didn't want to have sex yet. Would you still go to their house and just reject their advances there?

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But say you didn't want to have sex yet. Would you still go to their house and just reject their advances there?

 

 

 

 

How exactly did he ask?

Come over for dinner? Come over and watch a movie?

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