Ms_Sweetness Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 Just wanted to know how many of you have found your "soulmate", and how did you know this person was your "soulmate"?
Karlise13 Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 Yes My BF is definitely a soul mate. That said, I don't think there's ONE soulmate on the planet for everyone. I think you may find more than one.....since I have had that same deep feeling of connection in the past. Unfortunately, at the time I was too young to understand and appreciate it so I f****d it up. It took about 12 years to find another soulmate. By that time, I was 33 or so and I'd learned a lot about what was out there. You recognize your soulmate by that 'click'; someone who really 'gets' you. You don't feel alone with a soulmate. Doesn't mean we never fight! We still have conflicts like everyone else. But we work things out. Even fighting with him, in a way, is a pleasure because we CAN be so honest with each other and there's relief in that...finding someone you can safely be so honest with. And it always draws us closer.
CurlyIam Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 There isn't one, honey! Them and the Tooth fairy live all in the fantasy world!
Samson Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 "SOUL-MATE" or ......................."CELL-MATE?" Call me a "curmugeon," but does anyone really need a "soul," much less a "soulmate?" Isn't just being part of the heavenly host good enough for everyone, or do we have to spend eternity with one person to be happy? Seems a tad spoiled to me. I'll be happy to live slow and die quick, ending up as daisy fertilizer and wormbait. If the living part happens without ever having a cell-mate, then you're lucky.
moimeme Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 Hey, Curmudgeon Yep, Samson, one of those sorts of folks with whom you connect on many levels is a lovely, lovely thing to have. The are rare for sure and so I suppose it's worthwhile to be able to rationalize one's life should one have the misfortune to not find one, or to have one for a while and then lose the person for some reason or other. I don't think it's a good idea to think they don't exist or you'll never find one because you then may miss your chance at connecting with such a person.
Curt Posted July 10, 2004 Moderators Posted July 10, 2004 Yes indeed... I do believe I may have found her. Nonetheless, she is not "where I am", and hence, I suppose one could really wonder if she were ever "here" at all. C'est la vie. Curt
UCFKevin Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 Not too sure. I don't even know if I believe in soul mates, or if there's someone out there who I'm meant for, but it sure as hell feels like it sometimes.
sportsloving Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 Originally posted by Ms_Sweetness Just wanted to know how many of you have found your "soulmate", and how did you know this person was your "soulmate"? Yep I found him For me, I knew he was the one when I realized that I honestly and truly loved him as I was never able to love another. There of course is the connection, the ability to communicate, yada yada ... but it hit me when I realized and understood what the meaning of "I can't imagine life without him".
capitald Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 I think I found my soul mate and then I lost her. I also believe that if it comes back to you its yours.
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