Mark1 Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I have about 4 female friend's total. In high school, I had a bunch cause I thought it was "cool." Not so much anymore. Anyway, one of these current 4 and I are going out to some bars Friday night to hang out. We were making plans over text, and the topic of misreading signals from the opposite sex came up. She said, "haha well at least u have signals to read!" Kinda suprised, cause she is cute, and would be surprised if handsome guys don't approach her when she goes out. So I replied, "Are you kidding? If I hadn't FZ myself after meeting you, I definitely woulda tapped that." She replied, "Hahahaha" Potential, does this have it?
MrCastle Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Hmmm. Possibly? Kino when you see her, and don't gas her head with compliments. The thing about tapping her was good but don't overdo it. She knows you're attracted to her, so play it cool. You also shot yourself in the foot by breaking down the fourth wall and saying you got friend zoned. But we'll see how it goes.
jobaba Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I have about 4 female friend's total. In high school, I had a bunch cause I thought it was "cool." Not so much anymore. Anyway, one of these current 4 and I are going out to some bars Friday night to hang out. We were making plans over text, and the topic of misreading signals from the opposite sex came up. She said, "haha well at least u have signals to read!" Kinda suprised, cause she is cute, and would be surprised if handsome guys don't approach her when she goes out. So I replied, "Are you kidding? If I hadn't FZ myself after meeting you, I definitely woulda tapped that." She replied, "Hahahaha" Potential, does this have it? Obi Wan has taught you well young Skywalker. The best way to avoid the friendzone is to admit attraction or commit to sexual innuendo early. May the force be with you...
Eddie Edirol Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I have about 4 female friend's total. In high school, I had a bunch cause I thought it was "cool." Not so much anymore. Anyway, one of these current 4 and I are going out to some bars Friday night to hang out. We were making plans over text, and the topic of misreading signals from the opposite sex came up. She said, "haha well at least u have signals to read!" Kinda suprised, cause she is cute, and would be surprised if handsome guys don't approach her when she goes out. So I replied, "Are you kidding? If I hadn't FZ myself after meeting you, I definitely woulda tapped that." She replied, "Hahahaha" Potential, does this have it? Doubt it. You opened the door for her to take the bait and she didnt take it. She said "hahaha" to avoid telling you that you will never have a chance, like you made her uncomfortable. Hopefully you can prove me wrong.
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 oh god, the dreaded "hahahaha" props for givin it a shot though, everyone strikes out, even the people with affliction shirts. Hahahaha = "oh no, this is awkward. I don't like him like that at all. I better respond with something though. Let's hope he get's the hint and never brings this up again." 1
MrCastle Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Hahahaha = "oh no, this is awkward. I don't like him like that at all. I better respond with something though. Let's hope he get's the hint and never brings this up again." Yikes.....
Emilia Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 ... unless she was taken by surprise. Not everyone can come up with witty, flirty comments off the bat
MrCastle Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 ... unless she was taken by surprise. Not everyone can come up with witty, flirty comments off the bat Hahahaha..
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I give you the giggles do I? Do you seriously think there is hope in OP's situation?
MrCastle Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Do you seriously think there is hope in OP's situation? I pick and choose when I want to be negative, and when I want to be optimisitc. I'm choosing to go with the latter, in this case.
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I pick and choose when I want to be negative, and when I want to be optimisitc. I'm choosing to go with the latter, in this case. OK, our answers are locked in. OP please update this thread soon and let us know who won :laugh:
todreaminblue Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I have about 4 female friend's total. In high school, I had a bunch cause I thought it was "cool." Not so much anymore. Anyway, one of these current 4 and I are going out to some bars Friday night to hang out. We were making plans over text, and the topic of misreading signals from the opposite sex came up. She said, "haha well at least u have signals to read!" Kinda suprised, cause she is cute, and would be surprised if handsome guys don't approach her when she goes out. So I replied, "Are you kidding? If I hadn't FZ myself after meeting you, I definitely woulda tapped that." She replied, "Hahahaha" Potential, does this have it? I wouldn't read anything into it or push the issue with her she could have been flattered, felt awkward or genuinely amused at the thought....its just a laugh......you gave the first flirt already.... keep communication open and honest don't act disinterested, give all your friends equal attention when you do go out and be relaxed and have a good time, wait for a more obvious lead...if she does really like you.... it wouldn't be so subtle..good luck in the friend zone and enjoy being there...deb
MrCastle Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 OK, our answers are locked in. OP please update this thread soon and let us know who won :laugh: Heh. I wouldn't be surprised if nothing came out of this, but I'm still rooting for him. I think generally there is no getting out of the FZ but we'll see. My first girlfriend told me she wanted to be just friends then two weeks later asked me if I wanted to be her bf. It's possible.
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Heh. I wouldn't be surprised if nothing came out of this, but I'm still rooting for him. I think generally there is no getting out of the FZ but we'll see. My first girlfriend told me she wanted to be just friends then two weeks later asked me if I wanted to be her bf. It's possible. I have dated guys I have FZ-ed before but it was mostly out of desperation
MrCastle Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I have dated guys I have FZ-ed before but it was mostly out of desperation Hey, I'd rather be the guy who landed a girl out his league, than the desperate girl who settled.
todreaminblue Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Heh. I wouldn't be surprised if nothing came out of this, but I'm still rooting for him. I think generally there is no getting out of the FZ but we'll see. My first girlfriend told me she wanted to be just friends then two weeks later asked me if I wanted to be her bf. It's possible. I will join the rooting for side .....the friend zone always has an elevator to the best seats in the house.....see everything live and up close no binoculars necessary....lol....now thats cheesy..... I had an exceptionally patient determined friend two years in the friend zone who became the love of my life so yes I do believe in possibility...and finding love in the friend zone....deb
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I will join the rooting for side .....the friend zone always has an elevator to the best seats in the house.....see everything live and up close no binoculars necessary....lol....now thats cheesy..... I had an exceptionally patient determined friend two years in the friend zone who became the love of my life so yes I do believe in possibility...and finding love in the friend zone....deb Noted. Yes: 2 No: 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Hey, I'd rather be the guy who landed a girl out his league, than the desperate girl who settled. Usually, the girl is BOTH
Eddie Edirol Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 anyone else.......? Are you going to keep fishing until you hear that she can like you? Youre not going to get it. You dont get out of the friend zone, thats it. What answer were you looking for?
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