Mrchao Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 question for the ladies... which one would you choose...? the handsome or the good speaker!
mesmerized Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 how does the good speaker look like? I probably pick the good looking one to have sex with and the good speaker to....hmm listen to?
jobaba Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 question for the ladies... which one would you choose...? the handsome or the good speaker! LAME! I have a better one... Ladies would you rather be with a guy A) Who is cool and nice, and will never stray but is blah, and physically unattractive (... though a totally normal looking guy, he just doesn't fit your standards). OR B) A guy who is good looking and smooth and very socially adept but you know (or don't know but he has) cheated on you with a co-worker of his. He also texts other women (not you) and refers to them as sweetheart and pretty much calls other women (platonically, ahem) daily and sweet talks them. Of course ... it's all platonic. Yes. Guy B is a real guy and I just saw his Facebook post proclaiming how much he loves his longtime girlfriend. Comical... 1
todreaminblue Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 question for the ladies... which one would you choose...? the handsome or the good speaker! The one who would be willing to hang in my friend zone so I could go a bit deeper and see beyond the speech prep and physicality and i could spring subtle impromptu tests for endurance capabilities and compatability.....deb
jobaba Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I am both. Lock up your girlfriends. Two female likes 60 seconds after you posted. SWAG and attitude at work... Pay mind loveable losers. 1
MrCastle Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Ok i got one: A.) Good looking guy, tall, good personality, good job, large penis B.) Ugly, short, bad personality, unemployed, little penis 2
jobaba Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 The one who would be willing to hang in my friend zone Pffft. I'll pass on that, thank you.
jobaba Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Ok i got one: A.) Good looking guy, tall, good personality, good job, large penis B.) Ugly, short, bad personality, unemployed, little penis Ladies, is it really the size of a man's penis that matters? Is it? (some girls cheer) Well, the whores have spoken. Some woman say yes, some women say "no, it's how he uses his penis." How he uses it? What is this man doing with his magical penis? Is he building things and fighting terrorism? "A gazebo, how did that get in here?!" "Don't thank me." What if a man doesn't have a penis, but three balls, and one of them lights up and plays a tune? Does he ever get laid?! DO YOU **** HIM FOR THE STORY?!
William Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 What is it with male posters when someone asks a woman's opinion all the men answer for her? Carry on 3
todreaminblue Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 LAME! I have a better one... Ladies would you rather be with a guy A) Who is cool and nice, and will never stray but is blah, and physically unattractive (... though a totally normal looking guy, he just doesn't fit your standards). OR B) A guy who is good looking and smooth and very socially adept but you know (or don't know but he has) cheated on you with a co-worker of his. He also texts other women (not you) and refers to them as sweetheart and pretty much calls other women (platonically, ahem) daily and sweet talks them. Of course ... it's all platonic. Yes. Guy B is a real guy and I just saw his Facebook post proclaiming how much he loves his longtime girlfriend. Comical... believe it or not the guys who are cool and nice.....can make mistakes and stray.....saying a guy will never stray is a psychic prediction.....same goes for females.....you shouldnt pick a guy or a girl for something that isn't in the now.....the future is always unknown and fidelity is a test that happens quite a few times in a relationship thats a guarantee....you dont how any one person will take that test or when it is going to happen or how well they will do....unless you are truly psychic....you can only go by past tests.....people find it hard to admit that they cheat in past relationships....they will omit that if they think it will have an effect on the person they want to impress or embellish facts....best case scenario....go for the guy or girl who values close friends and family and is loyal to them...someone who smiles when they talk about them...that is a safe bet.......deb 1
jobaba Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 believe it or not the guys who are cool and nice.....can make mistakes and stray.....saying a guy will never stray is a psychic prediction.....same goes for females.....you shouldnt pick a guy or a girl for something that isn't in the now.....the future is always unknown and fidelity is a test that happens quite a few times in a relationship thats a guarantee....you dont how any one person will take that test or when it is going to happen or how well they will do....unless you are truly psychic....you can only go by past tests.....people find it hard to admit that they cheat in past relationships....they will omit that if they think it will have an effect on the person they want to impress or embellish facts....best case scenario....go for the guy or girl who values close friends and family and is loyal to them...someone who smiles when they talk about them...that is a safe bet.......deb I'm talking about a guy who proactively chases these windows though. Big difference. Did you read my post? He texts other women and calls them 'sweetheart'? If he were desirable, would you still take him over the guy who is blah but loyal to you? Not that it matters. Once upon a time, I used to think fidelity was a big deal to women. I've since learned it isn't, because they cheat just as often.
jobaba Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 What is it with male posters when someone asks a woman's opinion all the men answer for her? Carry on Because gals like guys who are men who take charge!
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Please list in order of preference: A.) Good looking guy, tall, good personality, good job, large penis who's a good talker. B.) Ugly, short, bad personality, unemployed, little penis who's a good talker. C.) Good looking guy, tall, good personality, good job, large penis who's a bad talker. D.) Ugly, short, bad personality, unemployed, little penis who's a bad talker.
MrCastle Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 What is it with male posters when someone asks a woman's opinion all the men answer for her? Carry on Because women don't know what they want
todreaminblue Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I'm talking about a guy who proactively chases these windows though. Big difference. Did you read my post? He texts other women and calls them 'sweetheart'? If he were desirable, would you still take him over the guy who is blah but loyal to you? Not that it matters. Once upon a time, I used to think fidelity was a big deal to women. I've since learned it isn't, because they cheat just as often. These guys are professional charmers the pro active ones they make women feel like they are the only object of their affection that is exactly why I dont go by something that is said in a phone call or written.Baby you are the only one for me I would never cheat on you.The guy was the bulgi9ng book of names under the mattress......i dont choose a guy because he tells me he is faithful......I get him to talk about his close3 friends his family not past lovers that didn't work out and it can be uncomfortable to talk about.....i see the passion and loyalty in his answers about the closest people to him.....then i see loyalty.....actions not words.....i form relationships from the friend zone.......And I know how to read people when i know them......and that takes time.....deb 1
jobaba Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 These guys are professional charmers the pro active ones they make women feel like they are the only object of their affection that is exactly why I dont go by something that is said in a phone call or written.Baby you are the only one for me I would never cheat on you.The guy was the bulgi9ng book of names under the mattress......i dont choose a guy because he tells me he is faithful......I get him to talk about his close3 friends his family not past lovers that didn't work out and it can be uncomfortable to talk about.....i see the passion and loyalty in his answers about the closest people to him.....then i see loyalty.....actions not words.....i form relationships from the friend zone.......And I know how to read people when i know them......and that takes time.....deb Wise words Deb. I changed my mind. I do want to be in your friendzone. Do I need to take a number?
todreaminblue Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Wise words Deb. I changed my mind. I do want to be in your friendzone. Do I need to take a number? Thanks, smilin.... My friend zone is full of lifers......no get out of jail free card in there.....and no borrowing from the bank.....i do give credit where credit is due to members only......and i sympathise with them often for putting themselves in there....its not a boring zone.....so run or i may add you ......you dont need any grey hairs......thanks ...deb 2
Leopard Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Oh my.. I would say the good speaker (if I absolutely had to choose ) because how well-spoken a man is says a lot about him. A handsome man is good looking and can get a woman into bed, but there is a difference between getting a woman into bed and seducing a woman. A handsome man alone can't seduce a woman, but a great talker (and I mean seriously a great speaker) can. At least in my book 1
jobaba Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Answer women will give: the good speaker. Answer women will actually choose: the better looking guy. Source: I myself always get complimented for being a good, articulate speaker. Late last year... Woman (to me): "You know, you're a really good speaker. You use pretty big words." Yes, that was her quote verbatim. Result ... rejection...
Radu Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I don't think i'm a great speake, here's my experience with it. A couple of yrs ago i had a similar discussion with a gay female friend. After i got comfortable with her, i started speaking ... and speaking and speaking ... lots of things go through your head as an introvert. She told me that 'you think too much and talk too much', and started comparing me with a few other guys she saw, said how she saw them. It's better to keep your mouth shut untill you have foot in the door and are stepping in. My friends know i'm like this, and they are ok with it, though i've never been given the chance of a hookup through them, so that should tell you something. Now, if you are referring to purely good speaker, that might be somewhat attractive. PS: Being confident is another different thing.
Emilia Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 What does 'good speaker' mean in this context OP? Men who are relaxed around women usually do well with them. 'Good speaker' would imply comfort and success therefore he is probably good looking enough
RiverRunning Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 All of the guys I've dated are not 'conventionally' good-looking. Some were shorter than me, one was very tall and scrawny (too tall is a negative, imo), another a bit pudgy, one had a visible deformity that would sometimes get mentioned out in public, etc. I've thought of them both as absolutely gorgeous. What attracted me to my second boyfriend is the fact that he's smart. Listening to him talk was a turn-on. So, the speaker, any day. I don't know...guys who are 'too hot' are a turn-off for me. Fair or not, I start thinking: "He's probably an arrogant jerk." Of course I'll talk to them anyway and give them a fair chance.
josation218 Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 What is it with male posters when someone asks a woman's opinion all the men answer for her? Carry on womens are too indecisive!!! even when they know what they want they never really want it? Is either you like me or not.. The reason why guys are answering for the womans is because womans dont have the cojones to tell us guys what are they really thinking... 1
Emilia Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 womens are too indecisive!!! even when they know what they want they never really want it? Is either you like me or not.. The reason why guys are answering for the womans is because womans dont have the cojones to tell us guys what are they really thinking... We might be able to spell better though!
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