FelicityShot Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Is love unconditional? Having given some thought to this over the decades (yikes) I have come up with a 'new' (what really? well only to me) idea. And I thought that love and any conditions one puts on it is much like looking at Matter and Anti-matter. (I did think this after reading some sci-fi, so feel free to laugh). Anyway, I kind of realised that love is unconditional. And all the boundaries and demands and needs, co-dependency or 'work' is anti-matter, and destroys it utterly. The actual love is incommensurate with any boundaries - and pain occurs when we put those in place. There is a ka-boom when conditions are encountered. And these thinkings made me question the way we say 'well is this love?' and wonder 'well are these conditions love?' I know there is fickleness and fear and needs in our actions and hearts, but deep down, all the people I have loved I love. It really doesn't matter to me if they are in my life now, or not, what circumstances or boundaries came into play or changed or stayed. I just thought that recently. I thought all this relevant to a recent closed thread.
nofool4u Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 Love is not unconditional. There is always the potential for a condition. Example. I stop loving someone if I find out they f****d around.
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