NYC-BigKat Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Um...been thinking about them a little bit . But not sure what to do. My friend tells me he had sex with some older girls around their mid 30s & that its usually easier 'cause they flatter faster than younger ones. How true is this? Sometimes I um stare at older girls around 30-33. The ones from the gym with great bodies & they actually look back unlike girls my age. They get mad for looking . What to do now guys? Start coming on to all the pretty older gals??
carhill Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 If you find a lady attractive, nothing wrong with politely approaching her. It costs nothing. Renewable resource. See where it goes. Even if not the be-all and end-all, it's good experience. As a younger man, meaning younger than now, before I was married, I had some wonderful times with older women. They're just people, like you and me. 1
MrCastle Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 In my experience older women don't play as many games, if any at all. They do the bulk of the work actually, as far as showing interest and whatnot. They're looking for a boy toy. I don't mind being that toy. 1
USMCHokie Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Nowadays, I take older women much more seriously than younger ones...actually, I don't take younger women seriously at all.... 2
Author NYC-BigKat Posted July 25, 2012 Author Posted July 25, 2012 Nowadays, I take older women much more seriously than younger ones...actually, I don't take younger women seriously at all.... So I really do right? I spoke to my friend tonight & he laughed at me & say not to take any woman seriousy, especially older ones. Why would he say things like that? It sounds unfair.
Ruby Slippers Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Um...been thinking about them a little bit . But not sure what to do. My friend tells me he had sex with some older girls around their mid 30s & that its usually easier 'cause they flatter faster than younger ones. How true is this? Sometimes I um stare at older girls around 30-33. The ones from the gym with great bodies & they actually look back unlike girls my age. They get mad for looking . What to do now guys? Start coming on to all the pretty older gals?? I'm 36 and dating a very cool 30-year-old guy. I've been seeing him for 6 weeks, we just had an early and no-pressure relationshippy talk today, and things are looking good. He's the most appealing guy I've met in years. One kind of cool thing that hit me the other day is we haven't even talked about the age difference at all. I haven't avoided it - it just hasn't come up. He has subtly and indirectly felt me out about when I want to have kids, and my response didn't faze him. Yes, I have sex quicker than I did when I was younger, because I'm much clearer with myself about what I want - whether that's just sex or more. But I hope you can deal with being called on any BS - because I'm much more direct about stating my wants and needs now than I used to be, and I think most women grow in this direction as they get older. If he's not getting the job done, I move on. No hard feelings - I just know what's a match and what's not. I hemmed and hawed longer when I was younger and less experienced. 2
yongyong Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I am sure most guys are like me. I don't mind banging older women. But I am not sure about serious relationship or a marriage. All guys have a desire to date younger woman and it increases as you get older. (when you were 20, those 25 year olds was still hot. When you are 30, I bet you wouldn't be interested in 35 year olds the same way) Before stepping into a relationship, I will be thinking 'is this a best I can do? I think I can do better' Most older women have plenty of sex experiences and no guy wants to have used up pusxy. She was hot in her early 20s and took advantage of her beauty. now it's fading and she wants to take it more seriously. who would want this? 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I am sure most guys are like me. I don't mind banging older women. But I am not sure about serious relationship or a marriage. All guys have a desire to date younger woman and it increases as you get older. (when you were 20, those 25 year olds was still hot. When you are 30, I bet you wouldn't be interested in 35 year olds the same way) Before stepping into a relationship, I will be thinking 'is this a best I can do? I think I can do better' Most older women have plenty of sex experiences and no guy wants to have used up pusxy. She was hot in her early 20s and took advantage of her beauty. now it's fading and she wants to take it more seriously. who would want this? That's a bit of a generalisation. Some girls actually didn't date that much in their 20s as they had other goals. You have no idea about someone's circumstances. 4
lino Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 he laughed at me & say not to take any woman seriousy, especially older ones. Why would he say things like that? It sounds unfair. He sounds pretty cluey to me
Author NYC-BigKat Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 I'm 36 and dating a very cool 30-year-old guy. I've been seeing him for 6 weeks, we just had an early and no-pressure relationshippy talk today, and things are looking good. He's the most appealing guy I've met in years. One kind of cool thing that hit me the other day is we haven't even talked about the age difference at all. I haven't avoided it - it just hasn't come up. He has subtly and indirectly felt me out about when I want to have kids, and my response didn't faze him. Yes, I have sex quicker than I did when I was younger, because I'm much clearer with myself about what I want - whether that's just sex or more. But I hope you can deal with being called on any BS - because I'm much more direct about stating my wants and needs now than I used to be, and I think most women grow in this direction as they get older. If he's not getting the job done, I move on. No hard feelings - I just know what's a match and what's not. I hemmed and hawed longer when I was younger and less experienced. I really really like your attitude a whole lot . I wanna have sex so bad. I cant keep waiting & waiting while my friend is having all the fun. I'm not all sure about anything serious. I mean, I could I think but I dont know right now. I just wanna try an older lady. I hope she wont mind my horniness. I really think I'm gonna go beserk on her if I get the chance .
Shaun-Dro Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 I am sure most guys are like me. I don't mind banging older women. But I am not sure about serious relationship or a marriage. All guys have a desire to date younger woman and it increases as you get older. (when you were 20, those 25 year olds was still hot. When you are 30, I bet you wouldn't be interested in 35 year olds the same way) Before stepping into a relationship, I will be thinking 'is this a best I can do? I think I can do better' Most older women have plenty of sex experiences and no guy wants to have used up pusxy. She was hot in her early 20s and took advantage of her beauty. now it's fading and she wants to take it more seriously. who would want this? This is what you need to listen to, NYC-Bigkat. Women over 30 are usually over the hill as well. Some may maintain a decent amount of their looks, but overall, they're on the serious decline. I see it everyday. I can spot a woman over 30 in a nanosecond. And I steer clear of that. My advice to you is that since you don't want to give women a rest, then go on ahead and look for a desperate 35 year old. They're always in the supermarkets pushing food carts or pushing one of their kids in the parks. All you have to do is start a conversation based on what you see.
Ruby Slippers Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 I really really like your attitude a whole lot . I wanna have sex so bad. I cant keep waiting & waiting while my friend is having all the fun. I'm not all sure about anything serious. I mean, I could I think but I dont know right now. I just wanna try an older lady. I hope she wont mind my horniness. I really think I'm gonna go beserk on her if I get the chance . I had sex with a couple of guys like you, too. I knew what I was doing, and I had a freaking blast. Just don't tell her one morning during pillow talk that you're falling in love with her
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