jerryinva Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 So..I went out with another woman tonight. I had a good time...but at the end of the "date" she commented that I would be a great friend. When I asked her if she felt anything else towards me, she said...all I can see is that I would like you as a friend...is that not good enough? I felt there was some chemistry and "tension" there...but apparently she didn't. The interesting thing is, in a lot of ways, she reminded me of my "ex." But, I was really into trying to make it work with this woman...but didn't know if "making a move" would be right... So, I got the nice guy curse...is there any way to fix this? Can I show her the other side of me? Any help, especially from the ladies, would be greatly appreciated...I am really bummed...
dudesomewhere Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 you need to show her your crotchal goods...you know whip it out yeah I'm a butthead...but I tellz ya it works. Not with me cuz I don't do that
Author jerryinva Posted July 10, 2004 Author Posted July 10, 2004 After a night to sleep on it... I really feel like I messed up with this girl...but I don't know how to show her that I really want a second chance...
dudesomewhere Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 ooh, on a serious note... maybe, just maybe she is like me and like some FEW others on these forums...who friendship is the most important start of anything beyond platonics(is that a word? sounds like ebonics and that ain't a word either ). Hmm, that is a thought. Simply asking her for a second date is enough I think. But maybe this time as a test to yourself...make it known that you too would want her as a friend. That's what it's all about people
Author jerryinva Posted July 10, 2004 Author Posted July 10, 2004 I think one of the biggest problems with my ex...is that I wanted it to be more than a friendship...and I tried way too hard to make it that...which doesn't work. It will either happen or it won't. A very painfully learned lesson... I may be repeating the same mistakes with this one... :-(
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