Dblock10 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I was thinking about this earlier, like what I regret about being in the dumpee shoes and if i could do anything different as to help myself to have moved on sooner what it would have been. and so I came up with that, i regret not opening my eyes to the truth. not accepting the situation, not accepting that my ex actually didn't really truly care about me, and i regret holding onto hope that we would be back together when she got back although i had no indication from her that this would be the case i held onto hope and really thought it would be different. its made me feel set back to some degree in the sense that she had moved on so so so long ago and wasn't feeling how i was for the entire year that she wasn't around. it makes me feel awful and a bit stupid on some levels! I'm now in nc and don't plan to reach out. its done for me. and yes it is hard not to hear from her but thats because i didn't reply to her last msg to me. anyway, is there anyone else who feels or who has been in a similar position, once you 'opened' your eyes did things get easier quicker and what did you do?
blue_jay_bird Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I regret having my life revolve around him. Everything was about him, i was living, but not for myself. Everyday, was waiting for his call, everyday decision, was how can i include him. I still have hope. And when i read your post it makes me worry i will regret this too. But im not holding out for him, its all about me now.
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