amaysngrace Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 what should i do then? i cant live without her p.s thanks for messaging me it really has helped for the moment I'm glad it helped you. If you want to take your mind off things maybe you should read up on the breaks and break ups boards. Or even maybe coping. There's a lot of helpful advice on these boards. You're not alone. There's a whole bunch of people who have felt the way you feel now. Luckily none of us did anything drastic. Please know you'll find a lot of support around here.
Chi townD Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 You have got to realize that she isn't your world! You live your life, she isn't YOUR LIFE!! She has her own! and as humans, we have a choice to choose who we SHARE our lives with. So, she doesn't want to date you anymore. There are worse things in the world! Dude, there are seven billion people on this planet and you want to end your life over one. What about the girl your TRUELY supposed to be with. I'm a firm believer that there is a girl out there that will love you unconditionally, that can except the little things that you do that annoy her, but she wouldn't want you to change anything for her, because it's a part of who you are. She will know everything about you and when the honeymoon phase is over in your relationship you still find that you are with your best friend. She's out there, and she's waiting for you to find her. And this girl isn't it. Now, GO TO THE ER!!! Get counseling, start talking and take anti-depressants. There's no shame in taking meds to get you through the rough patches and I PROMISE YOU, people will be on here to help! 4
bosox Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Man I've been right where you are before. It feels like there is nowhere to go. Like it can't ever get better. You Have to just push though. I PROMISE it'll get better. It's so hard to believe in the place you are at right now but it really will. I was ready to end my life because of this break up. You know what I would have missed out on so much. Yeah it still stinks sometimes but I realize now how much more there is. Don't let this girl get the best of you. You are better than this. Keep fighting and see what's on the other side. It's totally worth is. Trusty me.
JoJola Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Hey..ya know life is precious..your life is; I will let you know that my boyfriend walked out on me when my mom was dying of cancer; my friends kept saying i was crazy..i felt crazy..i just wanted to die kind of like how you feel but you know what I am here...life changed for me but Im ok. Go get some help; go to the ER...call a suicidal help line; they will talk to you on the phone..i dont know where you are or i could find a number for you 1
AlexanderJames Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 You're not alone mate many of us are guilty of having had these thoughts. You need to be strong for yourself so that others can be strong through you. In time you will be the one helping other people trapped in such dark places feeling lost and seeking guidance. Bringing strength and hapiness to those in need is far more rewarding than anything else you could ever do mate. Suicide is not the answer. I read a story on here not too long ago about a woman who took her own life on her ex's birthday. The person in need sharing the story wasnt the ex, or even a member of his family but a friend. Suicide affects everyone. You arent just passing your hurt onto your ex but your family, your friends, her family, her friends, everyone. Not to mention that some gorgeous, loving, caring, wonderful woman will miss out on her chance to find love and hapiness in you if you remove yourself from this world. Life is precious. Dont do anything drastic. Get yourself to a professional mate. 1
steveblack Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Dude we are family here. We are all going through really tough times. We are here for you. 1
todreaminblue Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 i was dumped a month ago after a 8 year relationship. she still cares about me, but all i have been thinking about lately is take my life in front of her. please help Years of therapy made me realise that if i were to take my own life.....i am not thinking of those i love.....you are wanting to punish your ex.....that isnt fair....she will have to live with it....not you.....dont destroy her life....reach out and get the support you need to move on and be at peace with you....dont be cruel to her......you wont be able to take that back and thats selfish....you arent alone in your hurt.....others have hurt just as much as you have....reach out.....deb
h2ojoy Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 come on guys, there's no need to be mean to him. please get some help. we're all here for you, no matter what. YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS! i can't imagine how you must be feeling right now. take it a minute at a time. plan ahead, even if you're agenda is to take a shower, walk around the block, or scribble on paper for 2 hours. call a hotline, or try going to a grieving group. you can get through this! you will be okay, just hang in there and don't give up!
Sheppy99 Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Seriously, go see a doctor asap and tell him or her the feelings you are contemplating. He can prescribe medication to help you with your current situation. Your emotional turmoil has put you into severe depression which can happen in rare serious breakups. A proper doctor can prescribe medication to counter act your depression for now until you start to move on from your ex. This is serious, do not fool around with this. Get to a doctor asap and be honest with what you're contemplating. You need meds to level yourself out. They can also refer you to support groups in your neighbourhood. Don't give up, there is plenty of future love out there waiting for you that you haven't experienced yet.
CopingGal Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Suicide prevention if you are in the United States: 1-800-273-8255 There is a suicide prevention chat. Go to this page and scroll down a little bit. It's on the right side. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline My ex was so mean to me and hurt me so badly, I felt like I was gonna die...like I wasn't going to make it. But I made it through and you can too. We are all here for you. 1
Miss.Misunderstood Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I dont know you.. But, if you did this to yourself. I would sure as hell miss the chance to get to know you.. 1
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