Zammo25 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 If someone wants to be with you what efforts will they make ? Will they just give up and no make any effort ? If you screw up but try and tell them how much they mean to you does it help ? Or is it that once the feelings have gone from her they will never come back ? How can someone say they love you and want their lives with you and then decide you are not worth the effort anymore ? How can they move onto a new guy so soon ? Literally 6 weeks. Was it all a lie and just words with no meanings ? In a bad place today.
StellaA Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Hey! How are you feeling today? We all feel like that, I was with my ex for 5 years, living together, then one day he dissapears, comes back 2 days later and says he is not sure he loves me anymore....all out fo the blue! when had a few weekds apart and then he came back, I still loved him so said yes but found a few months down the line I could not trust him to hurt me again. I broke it off with him and In a way you kind of want them to fight for you....it's been 3 months now and I have not heard a thing......is it a good thing, maybe...it helps not seeing him I guess but on the other hand did part of me want to see if he fought for me....yes! Can't win either way! I'm just holding out that I am doing the right thing and as much as it hurts like hell, I will be rewarded one day and think if I had not have been strong I would not have got what I have now
Author Zammo25 Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 It's a rollercoaster. One day better, the next terrible, yesterday I was feeling more positive, today, bad again. She put no fight at the end, made no real effort to keep the relationship together so it just sort of fizzled out as I could not do it on my own. 6 weeks after we last meet up, with another guy.
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