Chi townD Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I hate to say it, but once you go NC, do not be surprised that you find out she dating someone else within a couple of weeks after you start NC. Like, I said, I believe there's someone, but more importantly, you've been that emotional crutch for a while now. Well, you're not going to be there. So, she's going to find someone to fill that void. So, I want you to be prepared for that. Therefore, you need to block her from Facebook and tell your friends that you don't want to hear anything about her or what she's doing. If they're your friends, they'll respect your wishes. But, chin up dude!! Once girls find out that you're a hopeless romantic with a killer bod; has goals in life and is a future Doctor? Dude, you'll be good to go!
Author digon1631 Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 Just an update guys. U guys were all right, there is another man. I walked in on them having sex. I am done with her now, she can go figure out that bull**** on her own. Thanks for letting me all know too about it. Now the hard part is getting all those bull**** thoughts and images out of my head. It's so screwed up.
flitzanu Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Just an update guys. U guys were all right, there is another man. I walked in on them having sex. I am done with her now, she can go figure out that bull**** on her own. Thanks for letting me all know too about it. Now the hard part is getting all those bull**** thoughts and images out of my head. It's so screwed up. damn dude. that sucks you had to find out that way.
Zammo25 Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Just an update guys. U guys were all right, there is another man. I walked in on them having sex. I am done with her now, she can go figure out that bull**** on her own. Thanks for letting me all know too about it. Now the hard part is getting all those bull**** thoughts and images out of my head. It's so screwed up. That has to hurt. Keep strong.
Author digon1631 Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 Yeah but it's a good wake up call for Me to realize I deserve better:) someone who doesn't take me for granted.
Chi townD Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 (edited) WHOA!!! WHOA!!!! What the hell happened? This is the only place in the world I hate being right. Well, stand by for the phone message or the e-mail stating that she's sorry you had to see that....blah.....blah... she never meant to hurt you.....blah...blah.... This was the first time this happened (which is bullsh*t) blah.....blah... Dude, just cut her out of your life. You don't need for her to be playing games with you. Edited July 26, 2012 by Chi townD
salmagundi Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 what just happened is the dude has his "Hey Joe" moment. Hope I never have to feel what must have felt like...I can't even imagine. Digon...don't look back man, there's absolutely nothing there for you now and nothing she has to say that you want or need to hear...
Author digon1631 Posted July 26, 2012 Author Posted July 26, 2012 Hahaha I wanted to see it so I can move on from that disgusting ****. Shê already has tried texting me and trying to talk to me. She said shê expects me to not move on hahaha. Sorry u ****ed me over
Chi townD Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 You....wanted to see it? And how did you know it was going down? One of the last times you posted you were sure there wasn't anyone else? And she texts you that she expects you NOT to moved on? And what exactly DOES she expect you to do?
Author digon1631 Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 She's crazy. She actually thinks I will stick around. Well since we still hang out we were talking and I had to get my charger from her house cause i slept over the other day. I went in and the door was closed so i went in and i saw it happen. I just wanted to catch her lying to me so I can have more of a justification to move on. I really wish I didn't see it now though because that image keeps burning in my head.
Chi townD Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 (edited) Yeah, that must have been....interesting, to say the least. Well, at least you can take solace in the fact that you interupted her fun! Normally, that's a massive show stopper! One of two things are going to happen. Either she's going to realize that she was stone cold busted and the shame of facing you would be too much. So, she'll just run and hide. Leaving you alone. (which would be the best option) OR The guilt is going to eat at her BIG TIME! And she'll do anything to ease that guilt and concoct anything to try to convince you that you can still be friends. It wouldn't surprise me if she uses the "But, we weren't together when it happened" card. Fact is (and you can believe it now) she was cheating on you. And you now know that you deserve far more better than that! Edited July 27, 2012 by Chi townD
Author digon1631 Posted July 27, 2012 Author Posted July 27, 2012 Hahaha she says she doesn't regret doing it and is worried what's gonna happen with him now. What a dumb bitch. One day she will realize she's ****ing retarded. And yeah I am not going to trust her ever again and move on
spives Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 So this is why I think it's stupid. Because she is still obviously attracted to me but she just keeps trying to refuse to in her head. She will randomly just kiss me hug me hook up with me. So i know the attravtion is still there even tho she keeps telling me there isnt. Like she thinks being single is part of being young, so yeah. She doesn't deserve me and I wish everyone would just tell her to her face but none of her friends or family have the balls to. Never, ever take anything a girl says seriously, unless you are at gun point. Obviously, I'm being a bit facetious here, but what it comes down to is that girls tend to be very fickle. Their feelings can flip in an instant. You need to judge her by her actions, not by her words. Re-analyze everything that you have mentioned in this thread and absolutely ignore everything that was said by her. Her actions will tell you what is really going on inside her head. Edit: Just saw the last page... wow. Well, I guess moving on should be easy now.
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