My long distance bf has disappeared, i messaged him, but no response. What can i do?

[ellie257]

I have not hear my bf since two weeks. The last time we talk everything went perfectly fine, no fights at all. I messaged him but he did not responded. I don't know his families or friends, so i am unable to know his whereabouts. Its been six months that he and i are together, please help me, i really need advice. What would happened if i never hear about him and he never contacts me?

[FitChick]

How much time have you actually spent together?

[ellie257]

six months

[sohappytogether]

I remember you from another thread earlier. This guy sounds married or taken. Why would a 31 year old man want a 19 year old for anything but sex? I would move on honey. He is a loser. He has:

 

 

 

• Has cheated on you once (that you know of; wouldn't surprise me if that was the only time)
  
• Disappears without warning (and I imagine provides no explanation or apology for it, either)
  
• Gets in touch with every week or so (and gives you some sort of flimsy excuse as to why)
  
• Has never given you his phone number (even though you have given him yours)
  

[BluGamma]

Sounds Suspicious, im in a LDR myself and if me and my Fiancee Don't talk for a day or 2 we get very down and grumpy xD.

 

I can't think of anything to suggest, that like you can do so you can find out whats going on :/. the Above poster mentioned he cheated on you and disappears for weeks at a time... this guy doesn't seem like the effort.

 

Tbh if you love him that much the best you can actually do is be patient and wait, if he doesn't contact you with in the next week or so i would suggest just forgetting about the realationship and finding a man your own age or a little older .

[HeavenOrHell]

Fitchick meant how much time together have you spent in the flesh?

 

How well do you really know him after spending time in his company and doing things together?

 

 

six months

[ellie257]

we have not met in real yet

[ScienceGal]

we have not met in real yet

 

He isn't your boyfriend and he is ignoring you because he doesn't want to talk to you anymore. He's moved on and you should too.

[justwhoiam]

we have not met in real yet

You never met him, he could be John Brown or Mark Phillips, you wouldn't know. You don't know anything about his family, how can you call him your boyfriend? Probably you don't even know his home address or where he works at... It's a fantasy.