Reaching out to her best friend

[BrokenBox]

Who here has tried contacting your ex's best friend to ask if your ex has confided in them if they're open for reconciliation, if there is any hope left?

 

If you were the dumper, how would you feel about your ex reaching out to your best friend in such way?

[Stephen13]

I did contact her best friend and it didn't go very well. She told me basically what my ex told me- to not contact her. She added that I had never liked her (the best friend) anyway.

 

I just wanted to try every avenue to let my ex know how much she meant to me.

 

Best of luck

[icyboi123]

Listen I'm going through the exact same thing I dated my girlfriend for over a year and seven months our eight month anniversary is coming up this 29th my situation is exactly the same as yours except for her dad and me were cool and her mom and me were cool but listen like me and my girl spend every day together pretty much we were somphorms in high school when we started dating but this year werre seniors. but I mean every single day weekends also she was over here at my house we were watching movies or whatever we spent two years of our life pretty much attached at the hip listen and if you're in the same situation I am in which obviously it looks like you are but me and my girlfriend were together longer but the thing it I have to say is this has to be a dream my girlfriend and me have been through it all I have called her bitch I hate you. I don't think I can do this anymore we should take a break all that stuff and knowing what she would do and she would always be like crying or saying baby I love you and like if I ignored her she blew my phone up like 20 times until I answered and if I was mad at her she wouldn't leave even if I said leave I don't want to see you she would say no I'm not leaving because I don't want this night to end with you mad I don't want anything happening to us so pretty much my girlfriend would let me step all over her and still say I love you when is the night was over so let me tell you you said your girlfriend had a best friend you tried contacting ? And after you contacted her best friend she said don't speak to her and she said that you didn't like her? Okay this is where our stories come together my girlfriend that doesn't hang out with that many people because were always together well just recently she met this girl and FFA because we race pics for our school and they have been hitting it off like **** perfectly I guess so they have been good friends for about a mom and I didn't pick up on the signs right away but this girl has no mom and her dad and brothers team up on her and pick on her so she has nothing going for her plus she only has one friend and thats heather my girl now I would treat my girlfriend bad but I never had people on the side that had enough balls to say hey leave him he's a jerk he doesn't deserve you or he doesn't care but when this girl came into the picture I didn't realize it but I know she was saying to my girlfriend that I'm not good enough well we had one huge argument and her friend was there and I called my girl a bitch and **** you I'm walking home because this is complete bull**** because she was acting like I was her bitch when I don't take that **** LOL not even from my girlfriend well we made up and we hung out that night but I would go out of town and her and that friend would spend the night like three nights in a row well I'm going to cut this story and half and say the weekend before she left with her friend on a FFA trip me and her got in a huge fight and I dropped her off at home and she was like let's just go home and watch movies I don't want to fight but I said no I'm dropping you off so I can go do my thing and I wanted to go out hunting that night well Stephanie and her friend I just told her that she was amazing beautiful and her best friend and all that **** my girlfriend bought it and thought that this bitch actually knew what she was talking about and I didn't realize what I was getting myself into so I was like I will show her I'm not going to text her this whole weekend when she's gone well the first day at I didn't text her she didn't text me then the second day I didn't text her but that afternoon she texted me saying why haven't you texted me and I knew right there that I got a feeling of one I guess you could say that she did miss me you know so we talked and I said baby you know I thought you wanted text me that she was like no baby I thought you would text me so I was working out and chilling with my friends and didn't text her back then the next day I didn't text her at all then that other day she came back I texted her she ignored me mad her yelled at her because she said she didn't miss us she didn't miss us arguing and she doesn't want to leave me on well let me tell you this I got mad I deleted her off my Facebook I was yelling in front of everybody at her and she showed no emotion on her face so I look at her Facebook the next day and it's a picture of her and that friend and the comment underneath that picture is I love you so much we had so much fun this weekend on our trip and my girlfriend would never cheat on me she deleted all the guys off her Facebook she never texted any other guys than me so I know it can't be another guy she said she still loved me she right now is being influenced by her friend that hey you don't need him all he is is a obstacle annualize and my girlfriend I guess bought it and so I try to contact her day three after the break up she read my messages on iPhone and I called her she didn't pick up then I called her off another phone and she did but when she heard my voice she hung up I see her in person all the time she is with that one friend and she ignores me so to sum it up dude tell me how it goes with you but right now I think the no contact will work and if your girlfriend is like mine you thought this would never happen and I'm going to tell you it is but you have to know how to deal with it do not contact her because I tried because after day three you know hey I thought that she would have been over it by then but no I think your girlfriend has that friend telling her not to talk to you so if you do try to contact her your girlfriend friend will be like see I told you he can live on his own he needs you you're the only girl that would take him and it won't work in your advantage but once she realizes that hey he's not here no more and oh my God does he not care I guarantee you it will work it's been two weeks now for me since the last time I try to contact her but I read enough post and I have had friends that have dated for over two years that I think messed up because they constantly told girlfriend baby I need you I miss you and never left them alone do what you think you shouldn't do and leave her alone let her come to realize wow this girl is my best friend but I want a guy in my life someone that can seduce me because I mean hey me and my girlfriend she wanted to have my baby she told me she loved me all that ****ing **** you just said your girlfriend said and that was right before she left two and then she tells me some **** like she didn't miss me it's complete nonsense let her realize that her addiction is not going to be that easy to just quit she's going to want Mooreview and tell me how it goes because I will call meant as soon as I get any updates on my girlfriend