zerodeficit Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and im always shy about stuff..it took me like 2 months before i actually kissed him...once we were on his bed kissing and he started to put his hands down my pants and i got kinda scared and jumped..and he asked me if i wanted him to and i did but when he did it hurt and i didnt get an orgasm (i know it usually hurts the first time) then like a week later he did it again and got the same results..help
jst4u Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 I will give you some facts that may help you out some. If he just jumps on you with out foreplay it is going to most likelly hurt when he enters in you and during. You need to be aroused which causes lubrication in the vaginal area which allows for smoother glide taking away from friction. Also only 40% of females have orgasim from just intercorse alone alot of women need the foreplay to get one. If he is giving you foreplay and sex and it has been a few time and it is still painful you may want to go to the doc and get checked out there is a disease called pelvic imflammatory disease and it is not a good thing to have. The first sign is painful sex or mestation cycles. Also it takes a bit of time for a female to get stretched out so to speak so the first few times may not be the most comfortable. Just tell him to be gental and take it slow with you. I am sure you will get there.
SnowWhite Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 It sounds like you just might not be comfortable enough for that step in your relationship. If it took you 2 months just to kiss then it seems like you like to move things slower. Once you're comfortable around someone being physical will come naturally and be more enjoyable for you. Also may I ask how old you are?
DerangedAngel Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 Did you actually have intercourse or did he just touch/finger you? -DA
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