pathetic1999 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Talking to my therapist (who had seen us both together at the end) said she thinks he might not ever call me because even if he did want to come back he could be afraid of hurting me more by doing so. He was so afraid of hurting me, or he might not come back just because he doesn't want to! How would I ever know???
BrokenMirror Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Talking to my therapist (who had seen us both together at the end) said she thinks he might not ever call me because even if he did want to come back he could be afraid of hurting me more by doing so. He was so afraid of hurting me, or he might not come back just because he doesn't want to! How would I ever know??? You wouldn't. My ex wanted to contact me and he decided not to because he decided to let the memories be. He told me that he loved me still, and missed me so much, but he couldn't bring himself to contact me. Th only way to do it is to rip off the bandaid and see what he says.
Author pathetic1999 Posted July 24, 2012 Author Posted July 24, 2012 I don't think I can handle the rejection if he's not contacting me because he doesn't want to. I don't know what to do, my friends tell me to get over it and move on. He left confused saying he wasn't sure what he wanted and was having a "crisis" didn't know who he was, etc. I told him not to call me until he knew what he wanted, but then I wrote him a letter after he wrote me one saying he hoped one day I would forgive him (but that he never saw us together again (my therapist said he didn't want to give me false hope so I would be miserable while he got himself together?), I replied that I would probably never forgive him...not that I was angry but that it had hurt me too much. Now I feel like he could potentially be scared to contact me.
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