MissAlabama Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 Hey I'm new to the post but my friend highly reccomended it to me. Ok My boyfriend, of 8 months and i have been arguing alot it seems. we broke up kinda sorta (it was a fight, he took it as a break-up) and slept with someone else. Came crawling back to me and we've been working on things since. it was going really great until i went on a 2 week vacation recently and now that i'm back i'm hearing all sorts of stuff that he did(not good stuff) and i was only back for 48 hours when he decided to leave me. Heres the deal, yesterday was one of the worst days of my life, i made a plan for him & I to have a quiet night at home, dinner by candlelite, and him making me feel better. and of course a little love action. before dinner was done and we could pop a movie in, his friend shows up and they leave to go to the bar, he just got up and left! i told him it was bull**** and i wouldn't be waiting for him when he got back.(meaning i wasn't going to sit there all night, i decieded i'd go stay at a friends & hang out) i got home before he did, when i got out of my nightly shower he was sitting there, i apoligized because he said it made him feel like i told him to choose me or his friends, i thought we got over it and we went to bed, then this morning i tried to cuddle with him and he just got up and ignored me, then he said he was running to his moms to talk to her about his aunt or what not, and i ran to the store to get a pop, met up with a friend and when i got back he had already left work, he didn't call my cell or leave a note. when i went to go wait at his house for his lunch break a little while ago, his neighbor Susie* informed me that he said i broke up with him and she wasn't to let me in the house and she told me she was going to call the cops! whats up with that? should i go see him when he gets out tonight or do i just stay away????
clia Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 when i went to go wait at his house for his lunch break a little while ago, Why did you do this after the way he treated you? You might as well put a Doormat sign around your neck. should i go see him when he gets out tonight or do i just stay away???? Stay away. Wait for him to contact you.
pink_is_cool_15 Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 I think you should stay away.. wait for him to come to you. He is walking all over you and he knows he can get away with it. your not being treated how you should be treated.. but thats my opinion.. Just wait for him to come back to you and if he apolgizes and says he wont do that stuff again then maybe give him another chance if he dose it again after that.. maybe you should move on and find someone that will treat you how your suposed to be treated. and if he really loved you he wouldnt keep treating you like that!
CurlyIam Posted July 10, 2004 Posted July 10, 2004 Burn that son of a b... clothes and the hell with him! Why? LEt's see: he cheats on you, repeatedly, leaves you out in the cold, dumps your ass in the middle of a romantic dinner to go out with his friends, acts weird when you take him back, tells everyone you broke up with him... He did all that so that you leave him! All women I know would have left him long time ago! Now, have some pride and do the right thing! Get mad and grow a spine!!!!
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