2muchlove Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 (edited) As some of you might know I've been in the ups and downs of a recent break-up. And recently I've been feeling a lot of feelings simply because I let her walk away thinking her hands are clean. And I feel like I need to get it off my chest as a final stage of moving on for myself. So I just wrote a text (I haven't sent) to her stating shes not innocent by any means, and what she did was disgusting and disrespectful. And that I lost all respect for her. I am waiting to see if I want to send it, but I'm thus far convinced it will help me along with the moving on process. Because the fact I let her think she was an angel in all of this is eating at me more and more every day. And I don't know if anybody reading this has followed some of my previous posts. But she was quite the deceitful succubus in the last month of our relationship. Any thoughts? Edited July 24, 2012 by 2muchlove Too much info.
Ruby65 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I suggest the 48 Hour Rule. Write what you want to tell her in an email, but you have to wait 48 hours before you send it. Any revisions or make any changes to anything at all, you re-set the clock. If after 48 hours you haven't made any changes and still feel you need to send the email, go ahead and send it. A friend told me about this and I find it really helps. 1
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