Lobouspo Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Anytime where you were just really creeped out by someone you were on date with? Did you ever find yourself in a situation where your safety was potentially compromised? Or to extrapolate a bit, did someone ever hit on you, and then followed you around? I've had a couple .....would be curious to hear of any experiences..
gaius Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Not on a date, women don't really scare me. Even the big ones. Plus I know how to turn them off and get them to go away if I have to. I did have a gay guy follow me around once when I was moving something. I said hello to him coming out the front door and turned around at my car to find him right behind me, silently smiling. That was a little creepy, considering he probably had a good hundred pounds on me. Made me understand why a lot of women aren't comfortable being thin and attracting male attention like that.
Sugarkane Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 When I got a text late at night saying the guy I went out with has a personality disorder, is violent, an alcoholic, gambling problems etc. That he isn't well most if the time to the extent that he has to have a power of attorney to manage his affairs. Ironically he seemed like the most normal guy.
venusianx13 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I met a really good looking guy who was a year out of the Navy. Fed me some story about how his ex-wife cheated while he was deployed... during our first date, he was very aggressive with me. He wanted to meet up the next day as long as we could either meet up away from his residence (like, way far away from it) or at mine. I thought this was strange. I decided to tell him I was busy and we'd meet up ASAP, but not that day. That night, I googled his name, and found out on a soldier's profile site (via people who posted about him) that he had beaten up his ex wife pretty badly and was also the one who had cheated. That evening when I heard from him, I told him what I'd seen (simply by Googling his name) and he flipped out and threatened me for "snooping." Um, Googling isn't snooping... good riddance to him! I'm glad I didn't have the chance to see him again. Another story, going back a few years, I met a young man online who wanted to meet up for dinner. We planned out date, and kept in touch via text and IM. As the week leading up to our date went on, I understood that he was fixated on FEET. He kept asking me about my toes, i.e., "Do you paint them? What color?" "Do you wear foot jewelry and toe rings?" "What kind of shoes do you wear? Will you wear sandals when you meet me?" It got to be incessant and creepy. The day of our planned date, I was already feeling scared and he sealed the deal with this text: "When we meet up, can you give me a foot job?" I backed outta that one fast.
razz90 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 i was in contact with someone i met via a dating site. He wanted to meet up 'halfway' though tbh I think his suggestion for where to meet was where he lived and not halfway. I said i was really busy (which i was) and he proceeded to tell me I was difficult and to f*ck off. Another time, a guy kept wanting me to meet up with him at his, and at one point i joked that he seemed desperate for sex, and he proceeded to tell me I had a fat stomach and block me.. So yeah, not a fan of dating sites anymore!
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