Jaf15 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Hi, i have shared my story before, but basically i am a little over 3 months out of a 3 year relationship with my ex gf. As of late I had been doing better, talking to this girl i meet, visiting her at work, took her out to dinner, and so fourth. This whole time I knew she was just keeping my mind occupied and truely was not my type. Well, we stopped talking because she had kind of turned physco on me, calling me multiple times if i didnt respond to text right away and having a temper. I know I can't talk to this girl anymore but now i feel as if I miss my ex horribly again... I think about how crazy this girl turned out to be, and how close me and my ex were, I am also sad that I do not have any "special" girl in my life, and wonder if my ex has a special person. I should feel better, i have lost 50 lbs since the break up and i am now pretty cut, but i realize that is just materialistic and doesn't change happiness. I am lost again :[ when will this all be over.... Advice please :[
steveblack Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I am seeing a girl 10 years younger than my ex. Same stuff going one. I have also lost weight, but yea i look cutup. DO YOU. Think about yourself. BE SELFISH. Your ex dumped you, like mine dumped me. I am good enough for someone great. She might not be the right person. Put things in prospective. It could be 10000)X worse. Chin up man. You got this. It sucks (I KNOW). but we got to be strong
Sheppy99 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Hi, i have shared my story before, but basically i am a little over 3 months out of a 3 year relationship with my ex gf. As of late I had been doing better, talking to this girl i meet, visiting her at work, took her out to dinner, and so fourth. This whole time I knew she was just keeping my mind occupied and truely was not my type. Well, we stopped talking because she had kind of turned physco on me, calling me multiple times if i didnt respond to text right away and having a temper. I know I can't talk to this girl anymore but now i feel as if I miss my ex horribly again... I think about how crazy this girl turned out to be, and how close me and my ex were, I am also sad that I do not have any "special" girl in my life, and wonder if my ex has a special person. I should feel better, i have lost 50 lbs since the break up and i am now pretty cut, but i realize that is just materialistic and doesn't change happiness. I am lost again :[ when will this all be over.... Advice please :[ I'm sorry but you know what I find humorous about this? and I'm not saying that girl isn't psycho but........ I bet she became needy and clingy cause you were so distant with her cause of your ex which made her want to pull you closer in. The harder you pushed her away the harder she pulled until it became crazy like. That just burns my ass to a degree cause when we are in love with a girl and do everything for her, almost every time we get treated like crap and pushed away. Just goes to show why aholes always have the girls who won't leave their side and you see girls crying "why can't I leave this guy who consistently cheats on me and treats me like crap" Why does this world have to be this way? In my early 20's when I was immature and didn't give a crap about any girls feelings, I was batting girls away with a stick. Had 4 or 5 of em on the go at some points. Now that I've grown and become a loving human being, it's insanely hard to stay in a relationship. I'm sorry for venting btw...... Btw stay strong and keep to your NC, it's natural to compare a negative experience to the positives of your ex. I right now could not look at any girl cause they are not my ex. This will pass and you will meet someone new. If you are constantly comparing new girls to your ex, it probably means you aren't ready yet to date.
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