Boyfriend calls 8x/day during a no contact period. What the hell is he thinking? Help

[SamanthaX]

I'll keep this short. My boyfriend has been playing games with my head for quite some time. He has been talking about dating other people recently--he feels he should see what else is out there. The other night he said he wanted time to think--so< we decided to take a few days. He called me an hour later with some stupid question and was a total ass. He then proceeded to email me the next day tellign me he missed me. I then got another email about going on vacation with him. I was sick with anger. I didn't reply and instituted a no-contact period without telling him. I am just so tired of him pushing me around even if I do love him. He keeps calling ad calling but not leaving any messages? I want to know what he is thinking? I just want to see what kind of message this sends? Can you tell me?

[jst4u]

You need to talk to him and tell him to make up his mind. He sounds like he is just wanting to play games by the sound of it. Tell him you don't have time for that highschool little game he thinks he is playing with you. The way I look at it he is trying to seriously mess with your head. To be honest it doesn't sound like a health relationship and if I were you I would get out of it as soon as possible.