tryingtofindmyway24 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Hello LS, Feedback needed..... I am in a situation that i am not to sure if i want to be in it. I been with my bf for 1 1/2year on and off and I love him dearly, yet we are always arguing all the time over any and everything, its sad. I am now considering moving out because he talks to me very very nasty tells me things like, "he dont care if he ever sees me again" and " he will move out as soon as he gets the money" or "he tells me to leave and go on with my life without him". Then he turns around and says he loves me and im his no matter what he does or says to me. He just told me that he knows I'm not going nowhere, but I don't feel that way about him. I make more money than him and I feel that he should be providing for me too. I know this is a new generation of women making more than men. its just that I feel as though he is bringing me down because he settles for less at his minimum wage paying job. My mom dislikes him and pretty much the whole family they say I deserver better than him someone on my same level with my same potential not someone who is beneath me. Someone that is smarter than me. I feel this way too because sometimes i am embarrassed to be with him because of his low expectations and I feel as though i am just settling for less because he is the only the second person I have been with coming out a horrible divorce from my heartschool sweetheart ex-husband. LS what do you think should I move on and explore my options im 24 his 23....
flitzanu Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Hello LS, Feedback needed..... I am in a situation that i am not to sure if i want to be in it. I been with my bf for 1 1/2year on and off and I love him dearly, yet we are always arguing all the time over any and everything, its sad. I am now considering moving out because he talks to me very very nasty tells me things like, "he dont care if he ever sees me again" and " he will move out as soon as he gets the money" or "he tells me to leave and go on with my life without him". Then he turns around and says he loves me and im his no matter what he does or says to me. He just told me that he knows I'm not going nowhere, but I don't feel that way about him. I make more money than him and I feel that he should be providing for me too. I know this is a new generation of women making more than men. its just that I feel as though he is bringing me down because he settles for less at his minimum wage paying job. My mom dislikes him and pretty much the whole family they say I deserver better than him someone on my same level with my same potential not someone who is beneath me. Someone that is smarter than me. I feel this way too because sometimes i am embarrassed to be with him because of his low expectations and I feel as though i am just settling for less because he is the only the second person I have been with coming out a horrible divorce from my heartschool sweetheart ex-husband. LS what do you think should I move on and explore my options im 24 his 23.... sounds like you've already made the decision. either you accept that he's the best boyfriend you are ever going to find, or you accept that he's kind of a jerk and you leave him to pursue "YOU" instead of just "you while in a relationship". pay attention to what friends and family say. natural urge is to think they're stupid and just want to bring you down or hate whatever you do, but they're just wanting to watch out for you. 2
Samilia Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Hello LS, Feedback needed..... I am in a situation that i am not to sure if i want to be in it. I been with my bf for 1 1/2year on and off and I love him dearly, yet we are always arguing all the time over any and everything, its sad. I am now considering moving out because he talks to me very very nasty tells me things like, "he dont care if he ever sees me again" and " he will move out as soon as he gets the money" or "he tells me to leave and go on with my life without him". Then he turns around and says he loves me and im his no matter what he does or says to me. He just told me that he knows I'm not going nowhere, but I don't feel that way about him. I make more money than him and I feel that he should be providing for me too. I know this is a new generation of women making more than men. its just that I feel as though he is bringing me down because he settles for less at his minimum wage paying job. My mom dislikes him and pretty much the whole family they say I deserver better than him someone on my same level with my same potential not someone who is beneath me. Someone that is smarter than me. I feel this way too because sometimes i am embarrassed to be with him because of his low expectations and I feel as though i am just settling for less because he is the only the second person I have been with coming out a horrible divorce from my heartschool sweetheart ex-husband. LS what do you think should I move on and explore my options im 24 his 23.... I don't see something wrong with wanting to have a good life. I don't see anything wrong with minimum wage either, but that makes it hard to support a family and have a future. Bills do pill up, health insurance is a must have, making ends meet might be fun at 20, not so much at 40.
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