edu Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Thanks for reading my post. Appreciate any advice given to me a.s.a.p. To cut long story short, my gf of 4 years dumped me for another guy last year. its probably GIGS. I came to this site and all advised me to go NC. she contacted me a few times but I kept conversation short and never entertained her. Today is her birthday. should I ignore ? must I call and wish her or what should I do? pls help me out on this dear brothers and sisters.. thank you and i welcome any suggestions..
CaliBabe Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Do not say anything. You are broken up and worse is she left you for someone else. Think about it... she chose someone else over you. Do yourself a favor and keep to yourself, you might be opening an old wound by contacting. 1
Jono85 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Do not say anything. You are broken up and worse is she left you for someone else. Think about it... she chose someone else over you. Do yourself a favor and keep to yourself, you might be opening an old wound by contacting. this. it's tough, but don't do it. it's not your job to give her any attention or put a smile on her face anymore. in fact she wants some other dude to do it for her. f*ck her
Author edu Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 however she called me during my birthday and wished me.. isnt it rude that I dont? its not that I am not heeding your advice but am very confused. do you think she would be anticipating my call?
Jason02 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 don't contact her. Just think of the worst possible outcome and how that will make you feel? She doesn't pick up. Doesn't respond back. Picks up and tells you how wonderful her life is with this new guy. For your own mental well being, stay away.
Author edu Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 thank you all so much.. I ll heed your advice.. but it hurts so much. was with her all her B days and now I cant even hear her voice. But I ll be strong..
KathyM Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Don't contact. If she left you for another guy, then she didn't appreciate you enough to keep you. It would be different if you both broke up over some difference of opinion or some compatibility issue that could be resolved. In your case, I wouldn't suggest trying to get her back. She doesn't think you're good enough for her, and that's not a good position to be in to try to build a relationship. She may have tried to contact you when things didn't work out with the other guy, but she will ultimately have those feelings again that you are not good enough, and so she will continue to have her eye out for others while wasting your time in the process. Cut your losses and move on. Not a relationship you can build on, IMO.
Author edu Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 Thank you Kathy.. That was a real eye opener... U guys r really helping broken hearts like mine and I really appreciate it... 1
Samilia Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Thanks for reading my post. Appreciate any advice given to me a.s.a.p. To cut long story short, my gf of 4 years dumped me for another guy last year. its probably GIGS. I came to this site and all advised me to go NC. she contacted me a few times but I kept conversation short and never entertained her. Today is her birthday. should I ignore ? must I call and wish her or what should I do? pls help me out on this dear brothers and sisters.. thank you and i welcome any suggestions.. Why call her up for her birthday? She's with another dude, she hasn't suggested a reconciliation. Now if you really want to, go ahead, you're not going to get struck by lightning if you do so, and you're not going to get judged for it either.
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