confusedcookie Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 So the only ex I've ever had doesn't have FB, so I've never done the FB stalking thing. But say you're dating someone, and you find out that he goes out of his way to google his ex about 2 years ago to find her FB so he can stalk on her page ("because he's more curious than anything else"). He does it pretty routinely too since he knows when she changes boys... Now is that a concern that he's still got feelings for the ex? Though in flesh, it doesn't seem to be the case, nor, if he did have feelings for her, he wouldn't be that stupid to tell me he's stalking his ex's fb page... Right? Thoughts? 1
Emilia Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I don't understand the term 'stalking' in this context since it's publicly available information. I have several of my exes on my facebook friend list and I give their profiles a twirl from time to time to see what they have been up to. He may have feelings for her or maybe he is just nosy like I am.
TG1 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 He still has feelings for his ex, like it is that obvious
Author confusedcookie Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 Yeah, I guess I'm trying to decipher if he's just nosy to see what she's up to vs. him still having feelings for her. Though to me, if you really didn't have feelings for them, why the hell would you be nosy to see what they're up to? You wouldn't give a dam right?
Emilia Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Because they are poeple I still like. I'm on good terms with pretty much all my exes, of course I care. I like to know how their lives pan out. But then I'm not a defensive person
jobaba Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Because they are poeple I still like. I'm on good terms with pretty much all my exes, of course I care. I like to know how their lives pan out. But then I'm not a defensive person Me too. I don't have any feelings for any of my exes. I still to talk to all of them (all TWO of them ). I was infatuated with a coworker who rejected me almost a year ago now though. I used to check her facebook page all the time and found it was killing me. I would get really upset when pictures showed up with her with other guys. So I just defriended her.
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I still Facebook stalk most of my exs out of boredom. I don't have feelings for any but I like to know how their lives turned out. I am also curious about people and if my impressions of them were correct. There are no emotions attached to it for me at all.
Casablanca Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I still Facebook stalk most of my exs out of boredom. I don't have feelings for any but I like to know how their lives turned out. I am also curious about people and if my impressions of them were correct. There are no emotions attached to it for me at all. I'm the same way
Emilia Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 There is one ex I still have feelings for but I defriended him ages ago, I don't want to know whom he is dating
Author confusedcookie Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 Okay, that makes sense. Though just out of curiosity... how do you know when the facebook checking is when he does have feelings for his ex?
Emilia Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 how do you know when the facebook checking is when he does have feelings for his ex? You don't. You either feel you can trust him that he is telling you the truth when he says he is just being nosy or you don't
Forever Learning Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I think he still has feeling for her. BUT, that's cool, no biggie. Lots of folks still have some feeling for their ex's. That's life. Some folks don't have any feelings for their ex's though. It varies. What matters most is that the person they are in a relationship with, is the one they really want to be with.
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