frink34 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I was dating a girl, everything was going great. I then had a major family medical emergency that caused me to stress out quite a bit. I sent her texts that came off as desperate, and ran into her once, apologized and seemed bad again. I'm still going through this, I told her what happened, but at this point is she done with me? If I wait a bit and send something apologizing once again will that seem bad also? Is there anyway to recover from this?
Forever Learning Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I will be interested to see the advice you get here. I did something similar a while back. I just went no contact on the person completely, and eventually they contacted me because they missed me. Could work for you too. Cheers!
Author frink34 Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 I don't think she will contact me....at this point she might be annoyed but I have so much trouble reading her.
dasein Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Mention the problem once, explain that it really threw you for a loop, apologize, ask her out again. The only way to get your answer, all the conjecture here won't. 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I think that in early dating, mistakes like that are fatal. 1
gaius Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 She probably isn't that into you if you can't get away with making one or two mistakes. Better to find out sooner rather than later.
mortensorchid Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Have you heard from her since the texts? If so you might have a chance, if not, best move on and learn from it.
Forever Silent Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I was dating a girl, everything was going great. I then had a major family medical emergency that caused me to stress out quite a bit. I sent her texts that came off as desperate, and ran into her once, apologized and seemed bad again. I'm still going through this, I told her what happened, but at this point is she done with me? If I wait a bit and send something apologizing once again will that seem bad also? Is there anyway to recover from this? Only time will tell this one my friend.
Author frink34 Posted July 24, 2012 Author Posted July 24, 2012 We had 4 dates, not sure if that is still considered early. I ran into her, had texts that same date, nothing since. I don't want to text her for a bit now since now she might be annoyed and I want to get in a better mindset anyways. But want to send her one more text apologizing for acting crazy again and see what happens in a week or two.
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