bambi2313 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 So i've been dating a guy from about February, and since i got back from uni in june, we've been seeing eachother on a regular basis i.e 2/3 times a week. We tend to go out on walks, or go over to his where he often cooks me dinner. I met his best friend and god-daughter quite early on in our dating, and have yet to meet his parents. I just wondered if you think we're going on the right track, as its been a long time since i've dated. Thanks xxx 1
veggirl Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 has he asked you to be his girlfriend? how can anyone know if this is going on the right track, there are like no details in your post. is there something in particular you are insecure/worried about? everything sounds fine, so why the question? 1
Author bambi2313 Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 He hasn't as of yet, however i think this may have something to do with the fact i suggested it was going a little fast the first time round when we were dating before christmas. The facts are we text each other daily, arrange days out etc, and when we are together it really is fantastic. There's a 4 year age gap between us, hence why im unsure if he'll ever call me his 'girlfriend' like sit down and have the talk etc, or whether he just presumes i am with his actions? 1
Author bambi2313 Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 He hasn't as of yet, however i think this may have something to do with the fact i suggested it was going a little fast the first time round when we were dating before christmas. The facts are we text each other daily, arrange days out etc, and when we are together it really is fantastic. There's a 4 year age gap between us, hence why im unsure if he'll ever call me his 'girlfriend' like sit down and have the talk etc, or whether he just presumes i am with his actions?
Forever Learning Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Cut to the chase and have a heart to heart talk with him to see how he views this situation with you. Clear communication is the best method at this point. All the best to you!
veggirl Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Cut to the chase and have a heart to heart talk with him to see how he views this situation with you. Clear communication is the best method at this point. All the best to you! I agree with this. OP you will have to bite the bullet. Not sure how old you all are, but people of all ages verbally clarify their Rs generally. Meaning he'd ask you to be his girlfriend or refer to you as such. Just ask him, because if you don't and he is playing around and dating others, you are going to get hurt. Protect yourself, it has been long enough for you to be officially together. 1
Author bambi2313 Posted July 24, 2012 Author Posted July 24, 2012 Thank you for your replies. It was like he was reading my mind, as he invited me over to his mum's last night, and i met the family properly at last. I then got a text this morning asking if i'd like to go out tomorrow for lunch in manchester to celebrate his birthday, just the two of us. I casually slipped him a birthday card with 'your just my cup of tea' written on the front, he got the picture xxx
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