zanzi Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I want him back. I am pretty inconsolable at the moment. My friend told him before he cut off all contact with me that she would be there for me but lately she has been ignoring me too. So he is ignoring me, she is ignoring me. I dont understand the reasons why he is completely ignoring me. I am having some pretty dark thoughts as I posted earlier. Because everyone is ignoring me. They are getting worse. I want him back, but I'm not in a dreamland where not talking to him for a few months will make him miss me and bring us back together magically. The same problems will still be there even if by some miraculous chance that were to happen. So the only choice is to move on with my life. But I dont know if I want to keep living sometimes. I really dont. The silence is hurting me just as much as any breadcrumbs would have.
Pod81 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Sometimes, friends and family don't always give the best advice during a break-up. Honestly, I felt like the advice and threads I've read from here were better than some of the advice I've gotten from people that I know. Keep posting on here! It's a wonderful community here and there will always be someone who will give you words of encouragement and advice. Don't ever say you don't want to keep living. The first couple weeks following a break-up is the WORST and we've all been there, myself included. It feels like you just live life on auto-pilot, and you're probably having difficult eating and sleeping. I'm only 5 weeks post-BU and I can honestly say that I've grown by leaps and bounds since that first dreaded week. Remember that YOU felt that there was a reason you felt your relationship was the rocks. I, too, had the post-BU regrets but emotion is clouding your judgment. Soon, that cloud will be lifted and you'll know exactly why things happened the way they did. In the meantime, don't sit at home while moping and pining for your ex. Even though you're probably feeling unmotivated, force yourself to get out there and immerse yourself in activities!
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