brahmabull117 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 You mentioned "sturdy" in the horoscope thread and I thought maybe you meant mentally. I look lithe and delicate, but I'm actually very fit. Oh, I'm no stranger to squats. oh you're perfectly fine. As long as you're in shape and you have some muscle tone, you're fine. I don't expect every woman to have DDD tits or size 40 hips I personally prefer the thick look with the big bubble butt but I would definitely date a petite girl if I liked her
iris219 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 lol, the wrinkes on the forehead and the grey hair is one of the reasons I'm not attracted to older men. I know I may end up looking like that one day though. I agree that older men tend to be more chivalrous, because they were raised in that generation where traditional courting rituals took place. I think how you feel is common. I just have an old man fetish. I rarely ever find men in their 20's sexually attractive. I find men in their 50s attractive, but that's probably too big of an age gap.
Author Seductive Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 I think how you feel is common. I just have an old man fetish. I rarely ever find men in their 20's sexually attractive. I find men in their 50s attractive, but that's probably too big of an age gap. Hehe, okay. I was wondering if I was alone in my views. I'm going to sound like a hypocrite too, BUT one of the men that I'm the most sexually attracted is also 9 years younger than me. He also finds me attractive, but it would be out of the question to date him. I actually feel embarrassed liking someone that's not even 21, but he's a well-known musician and that adds on to a more mature and refined presence.
brahmabull117 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Hehe, okay. I was wondering if I was alone in my views. I'm going to sound like a hypocrite too, BUT one of the men that I'm the most sexually attracted is also 9 years younger than me. He also finds me attractive, but it would be out of the question to date him. I actually feel embarrassed liking someone that's not even 21, but he's a well-known musician and that adds on to a more mature and refined presence. Why is that embarassing? I was pretty handsome at 20
USMCHokie Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 but he's a well-known musician and that adds on to a more mature and refined presence. You associate one with the others...?
Pyro Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 When I was dating the age was never a factor to me. All I wanted was to find a female who was good looking, honest, intelligent and had a fun personality but also serious when need be. 2
fortyninethousand322 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I guess. I'd date anyone aged 18-32 (I'm 24). But I'd prefer somewhere around 21-27 I think.
USMCHokie Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 All I wanted was to find a female who was good looking, honest, intelligent and had a fun personality but also serious when need be. I have generally found this only with older women... But that's just from my very limited experience...
iris219 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Hehe, okay. I was wondering if I was alone in my views. I'm going to sound like a hypocrite too, BUT one of the men that I'm the most sexually attracted is also 9 years younger than me. He also finds me attractive, but it would be out of the question to date him. I actually feel embarrassed liking someone that's not even 21, but he's a well-known musician and that adds on to a more mature and refined presence. He's of age so you might as well give it a try. However, I wouldn't expect anything serious (based on his age and profession), so if you're set on having a serious relationship, you might want to avoid it.
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Eh, I don't know...I guess for me personally, anything over a decade makes me squirm and a little in my mouth... Ah, generalizations are made...where you equate age with settledness...? Before you jump on me for that statement Ill have you know that I said men that age TEND to be more settled, I also said that if I met someone my own age who was I would be more than happy to date them.
Author Seductive Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 You associate one with the others...? I'm just taking a guess as to why I'm so attracted to him. I like musicians with long hair in general anyway. The band he's a part of (all 20 and 21 year olds) has been called mature for their age numerous times. Iris-He has a serious girlfriend, which is why I can't dont pursue him hahahahaha...
USMCHokie Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Before you jump on me for that statement Ill have you know that I said men that age TEND to be more settled, I also said that if I met someone my own age who was I would be more than happy to date them. Not jumping. Just a not-so-subtle reference back to my generalizations theory... I knew what you meant.
Pyro Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I have generally found this only with older women... But that's just from my very limited experience... Based on my experience I saw the same thing. I got lucky with the Aussie (6 years younger)
SunandMoon Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 When I was dating the age was never a factor to me. All I wanted was to find a female who was good looking, honest, intelligent and had a fun personality but also serious when need be. Out of this entire thread I like this answer most of all! Short and to the point. 2
Author Seductive Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 Out of this entire thread I like this answer most of all! Short and to the point. It was a great answer, but note how he/she says "good looking." I haven't found enough older men to be good-looking, unless they're a celebrity.
Pyro Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 It was a great answer, but note how he/she says "good looking." I haven't found enough older men to be good-looking, unless they're a celebrity. I am a he. Good looking to me of course. I can't say who everyone is attracted to.
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I prefer younger men, although not more than 5 years younger. I have never dated anyone more than 2 years older. I think for me, being 33, I was a late bloomer and don't have the relationship experience women my age have. I feel uncomfortable with older men who already have marriage and kids thing behind them (and most men over 35 do). I also hate how some men over 35 let themselves go and look like my dad. Having said that, I most attracted to people who had comparable life/relationship experience to me, regardless of age. 1
Author Seductive Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 I prefer younger men, although not more than 5 years younger. I have never dated anyone more than 2 years older. I think for me, being 33, I was a late bloomer and don't have the relationship experience women my age have. I feel uncomfortable with older men who already have marriage and kids thing behind them (and most men over 35 do). I also hate how some men over 35 let themselves go and look like my dad. Having said that, I most attracted to people who had comparable life/relationship experience to me, regardless of age. You sound like me, girl. The 37 year old man that I went on a date with years ago also had a child and was going through a nasty divorce.That impacted my ability to relate to him. In my family's culture, it's very taboo to marry a divorced man with kids unless you're in the same situation.
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Yeah, when they started talking about ex wives, divorce process and kids custody, it is so alien to me; I feel I can't relate at all.
USMCHokie Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Yeah, when they started talking about ex wives, divorce process and kids custody, it is so alien to me; I feel I can't relate at all. And here we insert my "tour bus theory"...which is why I struggled with dating the older woman...
Author Seductive Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 you look quite young yourself for your age. More reason why I believe why we may not be attracted to someone that doesn't represent youth. My friend is 35, but looks like 21. She gets 19 year old college boys hitting on her all of the time. Her husband looks young too. He's around her age.
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 you look quite young yourself for your age. More reason why I believe why we may not be attracted to someone that doesn't represent youth. My friend is 35, but looks like 21. She gets 19 year old college boys hitting on her all of the time. Her husband looks young too. He's around her age. Most people, men and women are surprised when they hear my age. They think I am in my mid-late 20s. 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 And here we insert my "tour bus theory"...which is why I struggled with dating the older woman... Yes, and that just takes away from the "connection". You want someone on the same wave-length who is going to experience "the firsts": marriage, kids etc with you. 1
SunandMoon Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 My friend is 35, but looks like 21. She gets 19 year old college boys hitting on her all of the time. Her husband looks young too. He's around her age. I'm the opposite, I've been told I look to be in my mid thirties (apparently ) but I'm 23.
USMCHokie Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Yes, and that just takes away from the "connection". You want someone on the same wave-length who is going to experience "the firsts": marriage, kids etc with you. You remembered the tour bus theory!! I'm the opposite, I've been told I look to be in my mid thirties (apparently ) but I'm 23. Dude, you gotta start moisturizing... 1
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