pharrigan210 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I actually like it when my girl friend get's hit on. Affirms her beauty. Affirms her hotness. Makes me feel like other guys want her, but she's mine. She tells me about past bfs, past conquests, past hook ups and it turns me on, for the above reasons But she's a a girls weekend this weekend and it's driving me crazy. Aren't these conflicting emotions? How can I like when she gets hit on, even though the thought of her being with someone else makes me sick to my stomach. Thoughts? Is this normal to feel this way
fificremefarben Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Perhaps when she gets hit on and you like it, it's because you're there to see it happening? That way, you know exactly what happened. Maybe it's the fact that you won't be with her so you won't know exactly what goes on that is driving you crazy.
nofool4u Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I agree with the above poster. Its different when you are there, however I can't imagine being jazzed about guys hitting on a gf right in front of you. Talk about major disrespect. But a girl's weekend basically is no guys. Well, no boyfriends anyway. You can better believe there fun is going to involve other men, and possibly this is the difference.
venusianx13 Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 One time a guy whistled at me while I walked with my (ex)boyfriend down the street, and my boyfriend chased him with a stick. While I can say that I don't think I'd enjoy it if another woman hit on my boyfriend in front of me... I can understand your insecurity while she's away. If you know she's a hot item (confirmed by the amount of men that hit on her and the stories she tells), then your mind is bound to have those insecure thoughts while she's out of your sight and having a good time without you. 1
stillafool Posted July 27, 2012 Posted July 27, 2012 I think your ego likes it when guys hit on her but you are too insecure to have this happen when you aren't around. Since you don't mind them hitting on her when you're around; don't be surprised to find her of the mind that you probably don't care if they do when she's not with you. That's when the fun starts for her on her girls weekend away.
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