boomerangg Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I was doing well moving on from my breakup that happened two months ago. I'm 24 and although I've dated a fair amount, this is the first girl I've loved. We were only together about eight months but I don't know, I just really respected and admired her and was attracted to her. She broke up with me over what she thought was different world views, but the night of the breakup was the first time it came up. I still think that was an excuse. We talked a couple days later and she said she didn't know what she wanted and asked if we could take a step back. I said no, that we should stay broken up until she figures out what she wants. We saw each other for the first time the other night at salsa dancing, which we used to do together. I had kind of a hard time, but I hid it pretty well and it really appeared like I was having a great time. She approached me and started talking about pretty much the last stuff we knew that was going on in each others lives because we hadn't really talked much since the breakup. Someone else came over and sat down and I ended up focusing on my conversation with the new woman more until I went out to dance again. I didn't talk to my ex any more that night. The only reason this is important now is that I found out my ex broke down and was crying that night, and actually felt a lot worse seeing me than I did seeing her. Why would she get so upset if she's the one that ended it? It just gives me false hope that she's feeling regretful, but she's made no attempt to talk to me since the breakup. She was always weird about expressing her feelings in the relationship though. Hell, it took her all day to thank me for her v-day present even though it was obvious it made her day.
Frank13 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 The only reason this is important now is that I found out my ex broke down and was crying that night, and actually felt a lot worse seeing me than I did seeing her. Why would she get so upset if she's the one that ended it? It just gives me false hope that she's feeling regretful, but she's made no attempt to talk to me since the breakup. She doesn't want you or to get back together with you. It's about her ego. She would be perfectly fine going on with her life if she knew you were miserable without her. If you don't believe me, tell her you miss her and love her and want to get back together again, and you will probably never see her again.
Author boomerangg Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 I agree it probably did hurt her ego, but it's still surprising to me that she would be upset to the point of crying. I was the one that got dumped and I haven't cried at all throughout the whole thing.
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