random884 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Well about a month ago we got a new personal trainer(in training) for the gym. She seems pretty neat,funny, and kind type of a girl.. She is 23 years old and i'm 25 years old.. For the first two weeks i haven't been talking to her that much,but that changed two weeks ago.. In the last two weeks. We always talk to each other for like 30ish mins before she does her bootcamp classes... I told her that i'll help her with her bootcamp classes(coming up with new moves) and to help her study for her final personal trainer test... So one day before her bootcamp class..She ask me if i can show her the workout machines in the gym. Which i did.. She made a slight joke on how many pull ups i can do.. So after i showed her the workout machines... So two days after that. We talked again.. She said i should come over during the days when ever i don't train anybody.. Since she knows i'm at work everyday from 7am to 7pm.. And her apt is two mins away from the gym.. While she said i can come over to her apt.. She ask me for my number.. Which we traded numbers.. This happen few days ago.. I haven't texted her yet.. Dont know what to text!! Do you think she is flirting with me or not?? Or do you guys need more info??
Oxy Moronovich Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Don't date coworkers. When will people learn this?
Lonely Ronin Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Don't date coworkers. When will people learn this? OP, this is good advise. with that said: I'd say it's a good chance she is flirting with you. On the other hand she might just be trying to make friends if she is new in town. I'd text her one day and ask if she wants to meet for lunch or dinner at a place close to work.
Author random884 Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 I know i shouldn't mix business with pleasure.. I have always been 100% business untill i moved back into my small town.. In this small town like 75% of the young people move away to a huge city/college towns and never come back.. So it's pretty hard to find a good/right girl that is in my age group in this town that isn't married or with someone... So that is why i'm asking you guys if she is flirting with me or not..
Author random884 Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 OP, this is good advise. with that said: I'd say it's a good chance she is flirting with you. On the other hand she might just be trying to make friends if she is new in town. I'd text her one day and ask if she wants to meet for lunch or dinner at a place close to work. That is what i'm afraid off. That she is just being nice and looking to make a new friend in the town.. She went off to college in a another state and came into my small town..
McGuffin Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 She's either interested, clueless or both. It's not wise of her to invite guys she's just met to her house. That can be taken as a sexual invitation if even if not intended to be. It's a little dangerous even if you like the guy, so I have concerns about her judgement and safety. But that's not your problem now. Girls don't generally invite guys they aren't interested in into their house unless there is an established friendship or they know the guy is gay. She's either totally socially inept or she's into you.
utterer of lies Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 ... Call her and ask her out, right now. Don't wait too long.
madjac74 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 That is what i'm afraid off. That she is just being nice and looking to make a new friend in the town.. She went off to college in a another state and came into my small town.. Why does that matter? She is flirting with you! Show her a nice evening. The way you talk, you seem like you would be a true gentleman and that is what anyone needs when they are the new person.
Author random884 Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 Why does that matter? She is flirting with you! Show her a nice evening. The way you talk, you seem like you would be a true gentleman and that is what anyone needs when they are the new person. Ah thanks.. I might ask her out for coffee or something like that..
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