whoknows11 Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 What happened - http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/336883-ls-you-were-right-3-a I know its been a couple days, but i assumed that it would of made me completly not care anymore and just move on much quicker. But if anything it feels like its getting worse. I feel much more miserable/depressed than i have before. Ive been having constant dreams of her and its hard waking up to it. I just cant come to grips with her being with someone new now it seems. Just constant thoughts of her with someone else. It kills me. Im just trying to get use to it and realize it. Cause i couldnt forgive her or take her back now.
Author whoknows11 Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 It feels like just yesterday she was here spending our day together. And were just perfect together. Just really hurts now that her time/feelings are with someone else. I havent moved on at all.
Dblock10 Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 (edited) sorry man, i know how you feel. its so rough it makes me sick thinking about it. i unlike you haven't witnessed anything new in her profile pics, i don't go on her fb. Just can't handle it as i look into everything to much, drives me utterly mad. this is why i am decided to do nc for myself, as i couldn't handle pretending that she won't meet someone and we will still be close or what ever. sure if i talk to her she talks to me and visa versa, but ultimately you don't know what they are up to with other people. should destroying. seems like staying friends with someone you want to be with when they don't want to be with you is just self harm and you end up chasing a dead end so why do it. what are you thinking? feeling now about all this, are you still hopeful or just really hurt now? you need to stop thinking about how it was the other day you and her did this and that. sadly thats the past, may be the not to distant past but she's clearly moved on. you need to do the same in anyway you can because she isn't coming back now and from your other threads she isn't worth it anyway.. she's very young and girls change what they want out of like an awful lot at 18 through to 26 maybe longer! how old are you? you need to put aside relationships till later in life and enjoy being an independent person. Edited July 22, 2012 by Dblock10
Author whoknows11 Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 sorry man, i know how you feel. its so rough it makes me sick thinking about it. i unlike you haven't witnessed anything new in her profile pics, i don't go on her fb. Just can't handle it as i look into everything to much, drives me utterly mad. this is why i am decided to do nc for myself, as i couldn't handle pretending that she won't meet someone and we will still be close or what ever. sure if i talk to her she talks to me and visa versa, but ultimately you don't know what they are up to with other people. should destroying. seems like staying friends with someone you want to be with when they don't want to be with you is just self harm and you end up chasing a dead end so why do it. what are you thinking? feeling now about all this, are you still hopeful or just really hurt now? you need to stop thinking about how it was the other day you and her did this and that. sadly thats the past, may be the not to distant past but she's clearly moved on. you need to do the same in anyway you can because she isn't coming back now and from your other threads she isn't worth it anyway.. she's very young and girls change what they want out of like an awful lot at 18 through to 26 maybe longer! how old are you? you need to put aside relationships till later in life and enjoy being an independent person. Sad part is, i didnt find out from her facebook. I deleted her along time ago. She blocked me recently. I found out about the thing at the fireworks cause my brother told me. After everything, im not hopeful anymore, cause she has someone else now. Before that i was. I took the suffering everyday emotionally cause i figured itd be worth it. But i guess i was wrong. The risk wasnt worth a reward. Cause there wasnt any. I guess i just made the mistake of hoping shed come back. Im just so embarassed and dissapointed now in myself for it. All ive done is grieved. Tried hanging out with friends, still cant take my mind off of her. I feel kinda worse than i did when we broke up. Its cause theres someone else now that shes spending her time with and doing everything with. I tried.
Dblock10 Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 its hard. and in a way sometimes is it harder to stay in touch and not to have a huge fall out? because i think it is, like for me we broke up due to circumstances. then i held on for 8 months, saw her again, we had that spark both had feelings. and now she is living abroad. possibly for a long long time and she is happy being single. how long did you waiT? and although there was no reward as such like my situation, at least you won't think what if? for me, if i never met my ex again before she left i would or might always think what if. although sure its been a massive set back and I'm on a downer. where does that leave me.. but i understand your pain, maybe look at it as a good thing now in a twisted way, you know the end of this story, now you got to focus on you and create a new beginning. you can do it i am sure. just take my advice if you are young, don't settle and don't get hung up on girls. just be happy and remember variety is the spice of life
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