i'mfaraway Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 For those of you in LDRs, why do you choose to be in one? Is it because you found the one and decided an LDR is better than losing him/her? I can't think of any other reason that might have someone enjoy being in an LDR. So I tend to think those willing partners in LDRs have found true love. Is that true?
ladyabstrused Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I don't think anyone enjoys being in an LDR. It's not something people would choose to have but they put up being in one because they either truly love the other person or is really interested. If they're willing to lose the other person by saying no to LDR, well that's their preference. 1
eleanorhurting Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 well my relationship is far from perfect but I enjoy being in it very much. We have a lot of fun together, we support each other and we encourage each other to grow and learn. I still go out, have fun with my girlfriends so the only thing that is different is that now I don't waste time going on first dates or meeting guys who were not what I was looking for or who were trying to have sex with me. It has not been too long so I am not going to say that we are in love because I believe love is something that grows slowly over time.
Sanman Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Mostly for the reasons you state. I simply have not found anyone better than her and I do believe she is the one. That said, there are tough times without her. However, on those days that I want to spend time with friends, it is nice to know that I am not ignoring my gf to do so as she is not here. Until lately, it actually was not bad as we only live a few hours away and usually see each other every two weeks. We have both been really busy with obligations lately and it will be 6 weeks before I see her again. That is really starting to suck!
eleanorhurting Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I'm sorry i misread the title it says LDR for some reason i thought it was LTR as in long term relationship. either way, if my boyfriend and I are still together in one year, our relationship will most likely turn LDR and hopefully by then the respect and admiration we currently feel for one another will have turned into love. And I would definitely do LDR for someone I love.
Star Gazer Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I'm in one because he's in A-stan and there's no way I was going to let him go...again.
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I'm in one because he's in A-stan and there's no way I was going to let him go...again. How long do you have to wait until you are together SG?
Star Gazer Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 How long do you have to wait until you are together SG? I can't say exactly (OPSEC), but not much too much longer. 1
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