redbone198412 Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Hi again all well as the topic stats im a jealous guy i get jealous very easy.It is stupid and i know this im 28 so im not some young kid i thought i should of had this fixed along time ago .I get jealous of stupid little stuff like guys chatting/comments on her page her and there knowing they see where together but just wanting to push in what are some of the steps that have helped you cope with this problem?
thatoneguy1988 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Idk dude but be glad she isnt kissing other guys and saying that you have a jealousy problem when you say she cant kiss other guys when your dating. Thats what my ex did, even her family said I have jealousy problems for having a problem with her kissing guys when we were a couple so you dont got it so bad, maybe that will help ya, it could be alot worse.
leoc1973 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 I don't know man I was completely at the opposite end of the spectrum. I mean 100% confident. It used to make me smile when other guys hit on her and made all their little facebook comments. I would think yup I got her and she won't give anyone else the time of day. I used to let her do anything she wanted without question. Never once in 6 years looked through her phone. She used to go have her girls nights out and I even let her go away on some bridesmaid retreat to a resort where they were all drunk every night for a week. I would have bet my right arm she wouldn't have ever left me or cheated. But she did. A cheater is a cheater and there is nothing you can do about it. Weather you are jealous or too much like I was if she wants to do it she's going to. I think you have to turn it from jealousy to pride. its the only way to cope with it because if you have an attractive girl there is always going to be worms trying to steal her. Just be proud she is yours and and not jealous. Its like when someone checks out your new sports car and tells you how awesome it is. Same with your girl. They want it but can't have it cause you "own" it.
leoc1973 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Oh and one other thing. I am not sure she actually cheated but she left me and started dating new guy right after. But I guess affairs of the heart pretty much is cheating.
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